Sissy hubbies/boyfriends are fun!

Yes ladies, you read that right! having a sissy as a partner is great fun! Why? because they share our number one outdoor activity; SHOPPING! Here's some great thing you can do with a sissy that you can't do with a real man. Some of them are just for fun, others are great tools to make you and your sissy more comfortable with your relationship!

Lingerie
When you find that super cute pair of panties that you just have to have, why not buy an extra pair one size up? Your sissy will surely feel like on cloud nine and accepted for who he is! It will also give you that satisfying feeling when you're out with your partner knowing you wear matching panties ;-).

Shoe shopping
Sissy gurls just love shoes, especially high heels. Take him shoe shopping and make him fit a pair for himself while you're there. Dont want to take it outdoors? Shop with him online for those slutty heels you know he deserves!

Dresses and skirts
This is not recommended in small stores but in big department stores you may easily pick up a few extra items and let him take them to the dressing room. Matching panties is something but wouldn't matching outfits be so much better?

How to make a Sissy 101

After my last post (The sissy whore experience) I got an interesting question from one of my readers.
She asked if I could explain in to more detail how she could make her hairy and slightly overweight husband in to a sissy gurl. Well first of all shame on you girl! Slaves should be trimmed whether they are sissy's or not ;-)! Anyway I don't have a lot of time today but I'll try to make a small comprehensible post.

Body hair
Simply said: Sissy boys should have any! If you don't wax your partner I suggest using a hair removal cream (Veet has one specifically made for the more rough male hair) on arms, legs, back, ass, feet etc. Avoid the crotch area and nipples. you can apply a lot of body lotion or Vaseline to the crotch and nipples to avoid splatter and irritation before applying the hair removal cream to the rest of his body. His private parts should be shaved. My personal favorite of late is to leave a little landing strip just above his boy clitty. Last but not least make sure his face is shaved smooth.

Nails, face etc
Now that we have a nice smooth clean canvas we can start working forward. Start by applying a nice

(pink?) nail polish on his toes. Next are his fingers. Most men don't have very flattering finger nails so I suggest going with the artificial (extra long) variety. Again finish of with a nice bright nail polish.

For his face we start by plucking his eyebrows. Dont go all out as he probably has to go to work the week after. Simply round of the corners on the inside (near his nose), slightly trim the outsides a bit thinner and remove any hairs growing out of line. Apply fake eyelashes (the 1 Euro cheap bimbo kind) as a finishing touch for the eyes.

We will finish off with the most important part of his attire: his wig!

Clothing
A corset does wonders for anyone's figure! I suggest you a cheap one on ebay (they go as cheap as 10 dollars). Choose the color wisely as this might be the point were you decide on the theme for your sissy (will he be wearing pink, black or maybe baby blue?). As your sissy doesn't have real boobs you can fill up the ' cavities' with a pair of socks or buy cheap silicone boobies for him on ebay. You will also need stockings and a matching garter belt. On top I suggest buying a skirt; a simple plaid schoolgirl skirt will do. A wide white blouse will do as a top. Last but not least his heels ;-) Why not let him buy them himself the day before (don't forget to give him a list of requirements such as color, height etc).


Make-up
Start with applying a heavy layer of full coverage foundation (the heavy stuff). This is impartant as it will have

his beard growth. Next are his eyes. Apply your basics here (eyeliner, heavy eye shadow and mascara on his fake lashes. Apply a rose blushy powder on his cheeks and finish with deep red lipstick.

Done!
congratulations you now own a fully dressed sissy boy! Take him out for a nice photo shoot, make him cater you at home, turn him in to a proper sissy maid or whore him out (by webcam or in real life); the possibilities are endless!




Shopping list
 - Fake finger nails
 - Nail polish (pink)
 - Fake eyelashes
 - Cheap corset
 - Stockings + garter belt
 - Some socks as fake boobs (or silicone fake boobs)
 - Skirt + wide blouse
 - Heels
 - Makeup (foundation,
 - Wig!

Additional:
 - clip on earrings
 - Necklace
 - Apron

Buying the stuff above on ebay will cost you less then 30 dollars and will give the both of you so much fun!

Caption of the day!

The sissy whore experience

There is nothing more humiliating for most men to dress up as a woman. For sure by now you already have your partner wearing pretty panties and I'm sure you fuck him regularly with your strap-on. But why not spice things up a bit and prepare him slowly for a greater humiliation (and bigger thrill).

This multi-day scene idea is to prep your partner as the perfect little sissy cocksucker he craves to be (he doesn't know it yet but trust me, he'll love it ;-) ). I'll add many deviations on this scene idea for you to choose from but I suggest you go all out!

So as I said before the main idea is to humiliate your partner in a new way feeding his submissive needs. This will be an adventure that both of you will enjoy. We'll start simple and take it further one step at a time. 

week 1
On two separate days demand your partner to get out your favorite strap-on. Put on the strap-on and make him

strip naked apart from his panties (very important!). Sit down on the couch and tell him to be a 'good little cock sucker' and suck your penis. These sucking sessions should last around 10 minutes each after which you dismiss him and tell him to clean up. A small giggle followed by something like 'you are such a sissy boy' will do for now. While he is getting you off make sure to verbally encourage him and call him humiliating names such as sissy cock sucker, slut, little whore etc.

You can wear your strap-on over your normal pants/underwear or decide to be naked as well. A little bullet vibe might get you off for real while he sucks your big strong cock.

week 2
Repeat week 1 but now force him to deep throat your strap-on for the last 2 minutes of each session. Really force his head down on your cock and ignore the gagging noises he might make; they're part of it and pretty normal, any girl who ever sucked a real cock (not the useless thing your partner has) knows what I'm talking about ;-).

While he is sucking explain to him that he is your little sissy cock sucker and that you will teach him to be the a real sissy whore. Make sure he is blindfolded during these sessions; explain to him that's so he can imagine sucking off a real cock. Notice how rock hard his little peepee is while he's 'going down' on you.

week 3

Pretty much a repetition of week two with the exception that you will leave him a present on your bed. Send him upstairs to fetch the strap-on and explain you left him a present on the bed. Tell him to wear it and come back down. The present you will leave him are a pair of stockings. I suggest suspender stockings or something frilly with a bow tie or something. Either use a pair of your own or buy a pair for the occasion on ebay (2-3 usd). Make sure he is properly shaven or waxed as hairly legs in stockings are jukie. (Remember that the idea is to humiliate your partner, not to make him look like a sexy girl! He needs to look like a dressed up man, not like a real girl).

Once he gets down stairs exclaim how  much like a sissy he looks (you look like such a looser, o my god i cant believe what a sissy you are, you look like a real whore now etc etc)

While he is sucking you off this time tell him he's becoming such a good sissy whore / cock sucker. Tell him you always knew he wasn't a real man but that its even more clear to you now. 

Once you are done tell him to repeat after you: 'I am not a real man, I am a sissy cock sucker'

Additional task: One of my personal favorites! Ask him if he is a sissy, of course he will answer with yes (if not a good slap in the face and repeating the question might prop him to give the proper answer). Tell him every sissy has a pair of heels and give him 20-30 Euro's. Send him to town to go buy a pair of heels and give instructions on what he should come back with (minimum height, color etc). If he has a decently big shoe size there is no way to deny he is buying the shoes for him self a great way to humiliate him!

week 4
He should now do his sucking duties while wearing his new heels and stockings. But we'll add a new twist: lipstick! Men are very afraid of make up as it is something you can not simply take off in a second. Also it makes them look hilarious most of the time which should give you a good laugh and him a decent humiliation!

Remember that he should wear a blindfold while performing his duties! Before you let him start you now ask him the following questions; 'Are you a real man? (No)' 'What are you then? (A sissy cock sucker)' followed by: 'good girl'

Optional: Order a cheap wig at E-bay to make the humiliation complete! 

During the weekend you will plan an extra special session! Do his make-up the proper way including foundation, blush, lipstick, lip liner, mascara, eyeliner, loose face powder etc etc and dress him up in his stockings, panties and high heels. (Look up a drag queen makeup guide) Also do his eye brows (don't over do it just make them slightly more pointy and take out excess hairs). Make it so that its hardly noticeable for anyone else; it's just the idea that counts! Trust me you'll have so much fun together! 

Make him kneel and close his eyes (to bring out those nice smokey eyes of his). Make sure your phone is nearby. Tell him you want him to keep his eyes closed and take four deep breaths (time for you to grab your phone and turn on the camera function) and tell you what he is ('I am not a real man but a sissy cock sucker'). Record him sitting there and saying that sentence with your phone. Once he said it end the recording and replay it near his ear. Once the play back ends tell him 'good girl you are really mine now looser'.

Optional: leave him with his outfit and make up for the rest of the day for added humiliation.

week 5 and on wards
Same as week 4, no need for the full blown make up; just do the lipstick (or learn him how to apply his own).
If you have a corset laying around in his size you could add it at this point for the added effect. While he is sucking you play back the recording a few times and giggle. Tell him he is almost ready for his first real cock. He will either not reply or beg you not to but this doesn't matter. 

Place an advertisement stating your sissy boyfriend needs a cock to suck. Find a guy that seems suitable to you and explain the details to him. On a specific day of your choosing you will invite him over. You will make sure that your partner is in the bed room, blindfolded and dressed up with full makeup on. For added effects you can paint his nails etc as well (remember, he shouldn't look like a girl, he should look like a dressed up man / bimbo).


Explain the guy to not ring the doorbell; the idea is that both of you enter the bedroom silently. You will then ask your boyfriend again to tell you what he is (a sissy cock sucker). This should be a ritual by now. Tell him he is a good girl and should open his mouth. I suggest you record this all on camera. While he sits there with his mouth open the guy should take out his (hard?) cock and move towards your partner. watch as he puts his cock in your partners' mouth and tell him to suck it like the good little whore you trained him to be!

This will be an experience for both of you to enjoy and possibly to repeat but you should at least try it once!

Have fun!

Time to get him in shape!

Are you tired of your partner being (slightly) overweight as well? Nobody like staring at a fat belly right? Tired of his 'love handles'? Here's a good diet plan that will get your partner in to shape in a period of 8 weeks! This plan will yield guaranteed results in no time at all and is perfect to getting your partner ready for the summer! It induces “Ketosis” in the body whereby the fat cells in it are broken down for energy in place of glucose.

The Diet plan

Breakfast:
1 piece of toast with unsalted butter
1 cup of tea – no milk or sugar

OR

1 cup of unsweetened black coffee
2 hard-boiled eggs

Lunch:
1 Orange and 1 apple ( mix it up with a banana every 3 days )
2 spoons of LOW FAT  yogurt

OR

1 grilled skinless chicken breast without oil or fat
1 cup of chopped lettuce

OR

A cup of garden salad with low-fat cheese, egg, tomato and carrots.
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Dont forget to drink lots of water during the day

Dinner:
1 Piece of Quiche (good recipes)
1 cup of tea – no milk or sugar

OR

1 serving (70g) of spicy shrimps with a minimum of rice noodles

OR

1 serving of Grilled chicken
2 table spoons of unboiled brown rice.
--
After dinner dont eat or drink anything except water

The diet is to be followed very strict for 8 weeks. After these 8 weeks you could slowly up his calorie intake by giving him 'regular' meals every other day for 2 weeks. After that follow 2 weeks of regular meals and repeat the diet if deemed necessary.

Exercise plan

Indulging in low to moderate levels of exercise during the diet phase would help him to cut back more. Below is an advised overview of exercises to be performed at least 3 times a week.

The Waist slide
You will need a long stick (eg a broomstick). You put it on shoulders and stand with feet a few feet apart.
Then start bending to the sides as far as you can go and keep belly muscles tight while doing this exercise.

Duration: 2 sets of 100
(rest 30 seconds between sets)


The Torso twist
In this exercise you will also need a stick. Again stand with your legs a few feet apart and start twisiting to the side. Dont do it to fast or to slow as results wont be as good.

Duration: 2 sets of 60
(rest 30 seconds between sets)




Hip Builder
This exercise is great for getting rid of love handles. Start by standing straight with your feet shoulders' width apart. Squat until your thighs are almost parallel to the floor.

Get up and raise your right leg to the side (balance on your left). Squat again until your thighs are almost parallel to the floor and this time get up and raise your left leg to the side (balance on your right).

Duration: 3 sets of 30
(rest 30 seconds between sets)

Thigh Squats
Start by standing straight with your feet shoulders' width apart. Squat until your thighs are almost parallel to the floor. Then come up slowly.

Duration: 4 sets of 20
(rest 30 seconds between sets)

Lunges
Leading first with your left foot and lunch forward and lower your hips until your both knees form 90 degree angles. With your right leg pull yourself back to standing until your left leg is parallel to the floor. balance on your left leg for one second and go back to the starting position. Dont forget to look forward and keep your belly tucked in.

Duration: 3 sets of 15 reps on each side

Ab crunches
Of course you want him to have a nice flat stomach. There is nothing better then classic ab crunches!
For best results do the crunches with raised legs as shown on the picture.

Duration: 3 sets of 20
(rest 30 seconds between sets)





Tummy toner
This exercise is great for getting rid of that bear belly you hate so much! Lie down on your back stretch your legs to the front as much as you can and bring them back toward your tummy.

Duration: 4 sets of 30
(rest 30 seconds between sets)


Raised legs
Lie down on your belly and raise your legs up.

Duration: 3 sets of 8
(rest 30 seconds between sets)








Ab stretch
This exercise is good for flexibility. Lie down on your back ans stretch your arms above your head and stretch as far as you can. Hold this position for 30 seconds. Take a deep breatch between each stretch.

Duration: 3 sets of 2 stretches

Knee rolls
This exercise helps take away tension from your back and tone the love handle area. Lie down on your back with your legs together and knees bent approximately 90 degrees. Position hand parallel to your waist, palm down. Allow legs and hips to fall to side. Hold stretch. Repeat on opposite side. It is important to keep your shoulders to the floor.







Spine stretch
Men tend to carry a lot of tension in their backs. This exercise increases flexibility and take away that tensions. Bent down on your knees and contract your lower back in and out.

Duration: 3 sets of 20
(rest 30 seconds between sets)







It is very important that YOU are very strict with him on both following the diet and doing these exercises! It is for his own good after all and most men are just to weak to pull through..

Extra's

While this program will most definitely work, it might take some time to get your man in shape. In the meanwhile a waist cincher might help out. A waist cinchers is designed to be worn under clothing and can take 1-4 inches off his waist while still allowing him to move and breath easily. There is a variety of waist cinchers on the market both specifically for males or for females (it doesn't really matter which one you get) and they come as cheap as a few dollars on ebay. 

It is also said that a waist cincher will help overall with slimming down around the waist area. 

Spring is in the air!

Although it definitely does not look like it in the Netherlands, spring is well on its way and it is time to take action for both us girls and our slaves! Here is a list of things to do or catch up on before summer now that you still have the chance!

1.) Skirts & dresses (and stockings!)
I cant say it enough; all women are beautiful and should dress the part! No more jeans and loose shirts! You feminine when wearing a skirt or a dress. If you want to catch that sexy tanned guy this summer, you better dress the part ladies! If you feel especially sexy, leave your panties at home and feel the warm summer air caress your thighs. Might be a bit frightening at start but you will get used to it ;-).
will look and feel a lot more

2.) Heels
It is imperative that you wear heels when you go out as it will make you look sexy and feel a lot more confident in yourself. Walking in heels makes the movement of a woman's lower limbs more sensual. In fact, high-heeled shoes adjust women's body proportions to come closer to perceived ideals, as well.Not used to wearing heels a lot? No worries check out my guide!

3.) Body language
Confidence.  Flirty attitude.  Eye contact.  Body language.  MANY things can signal that you’re fun!  I

personally believe that regular eye contact and body language, followed by confidence and being flirty are major factors to make you a happier person.  If you’re out – either alone, with your partner or with a group of friends – at a bar or club, you don’t want to be standing against the wall sipping a drink and hiding your face from everyone. If you do happen to be standing against the wall, why not sway with the music?  Look around and smile at the guys?  Don’t cross your arms, but dance a little bit? Or walk around the room making eye contact and saying hello.  You never know what guy will stop you and start a great conversation. Many of us think we lack the confidence or ability to flirt, but there’s always the old saying “fake it until you make it”… be in character, pretend you’re the hottest woman in the room!  ;)





4.) Girls night out!
This is particularly effective if you have single friends. Take a night out with your girlfriends, at least once monthly. Have a few drinks and use the alcohol as an excuse for your flirtations, if you need an excuse. Return home with tales of other men flirting with you, buying drinks, more cell phone pictures, etc. Exaggerate if you must— or better yet, return with a phone number…. or another man.


5.) Strap it on!
Now that you are back on your a-game it is also time to bring your partner back down to earth! If a man gets the strap-on frequently, over time his body and brain will adjust to his new circumstance, and all kinds of changes, both physical and psychological, will happen. His sexual pleasure zone, for example, will slowly start to shift from the head of his penis to his asshole. This change will be accelerated if his penis is locked up 24/7, and the only time he’s allowed to cum is when he’s fucked in the ass. His body and brain will eventually start to associate anal penetration with orgasm.

Over time he will begin to not only enjoy it, he will start to crave it. Such that if you withhold the strap-on for a while, and don’t let him cum, he will miss it, become extremely anxious about it, and will eventually ask you for it. That’s when you know that all your patience training efforts with him have paid off.

Do not under any circumstance let him penetrate you as you may undo your hard work. There are plenty of alternatives to penetrative sex to satisfy you.

6.) Grooming 
Just like you have to make sure you look the part, your partner will also have to look like the submissive worthless little looser that he really is, right? Make sure your partner is waxed or at least shaved properly. The less body hair the better. If you decided not to wax, make sure you give him a shaving regime. I found the schedule below to work for me:
 - Legs, pubes (incl. ass) every 3 days
 - Arms (incl. arm pits) twice a week
 - Chest every other day
 - Back (if needed) once a week (I highly suggest at least waxing the back!!)
Make him adhere to the schedule and inspect regular!

7.) Game time
When the weather improves so do the opportunities for us to play outside :-)

One of my favorites is to dress him up as a sissy boy (corset, stockings, heels, stretchy skirt, lots of make-
up) and take him for a ride in the evening/night. Drop him out on one side of a parking lot along a high way and drive to the other side. Make him do the walk of shame back to the car! Alternatively you could drive to a local park, let him out on one side and tell him to walk to the other side where you will be waiting to pick
him up. If you can find a particularly quiet place you could fuck him while bend over the hood to make his humiliation complete.

If you are more in to puppy play you could take him to a park and walk him like the silly little dog he is.
Or alternatively give him a good spanking while bend over a park bench. If you prefer to avoid the park during the night you could go during the day instead. There is tons of things you may do in the park such as telling him to rub your feet while you sit on a bench and he kneels in front of you. or making him wear a nice (pink?) dog collar out in public.I even once found a secluded spot and told my partner to lay down, then stood over him and peed right on his face! How humiliated he was when i made him walk back to the car 10 meter a head of me :-).

When summer comes you might also want a little more space in bed (I hate sticky bodies ugh). If you earn a garden shed, why not make him sleep in there, perhaps attach a piece of chain to the wall there and chain him to make sure he doesn't run away :)

Small penis humiliation ideas!

1.) Expose him online!
Make a picture of your partners' penis while he is wearing his prettiest panties and is nicely shaven down there and submit it to this great website: showyourtinydick.com or cocks.ratemeplease.com or www.ratemypecker.com

Completely anonymous but certainly a lot of fun!





2.) Nude beachGo to a nude beach. Demand that he takes a dip in the cold water then take a stroll along the beach to show everyone his small male equipment. There should be major shrinkage, he'll be down to acorn size! Make sure he is nicely shaven down there and maybe even has a nice feminine tan line (send him to a tanning center 3-4 times and tell him to wear a nice string bikini).


3.) Chat roulette 
Tie him down on a chair, exposed (again wearing pretty panties and maybe some stockings and nicely shaven). Point a webcam to his little clitty and enter chat roulette. See how other people have fun laughing at ho pathetically small he is! 

4.) Condom shopping
Go to a shop and make him ask the attended what the smallest condoms are they have for sale, make him purchase a pack. Look on from a distance as if the two of you are not together.

5.) Clothing
Buy him a t-shirt! 

6.) Tuck 'n tape
Make him tuck his penis like drag queens (and sissies) do and

make him wear a pair of speedo's to a swimming pool. His penis will look none existent! 

7.) Verbally humiliate him
Probably the best humiliation tip by far! Google small penis humiliation captions for ideas.

Question from reader S - How to deal with a cocky slave

Last week I've received an E-mail from S. S has a FLR with her husband for 6 months now but her husband is starting to act a bit cocky and she doesn't know how to deal with it appropriately. S also pointed out that she ants to keep things basic. 

The situation above sounds very familiar to me as it is exactly what my husband did when we first engaged in our FLR. I've send S a personal answer but I will recap my thoughts below for all to benefit from.

Back to basics

To deal with a situation as described above it is needed to go back to the basics. In a Female led Relationship, the woman is obviously in charge. I'd like to go a step further and say that her partner/slave is her property and property should fit its purpose and obey. I also know that most of you don't want your relationship to become to extreme. It might be necessary however to create boundaries and take the things your partner takes for granted at this point and turn them in to a reward. I suggest following the majority of the pointers written out below for at least a two month period and afterwards slowly adjusting back to the living situation you are in now.

To be naked is to be vulnerable

Nudity is the ultimate humiliation for a human being; a naked male slave will feel vulnerable and enforces his feeling of being owned. A naked man will not speak out to a dressed woman, it will feel against their nature. Having your partner strip naked whenever he is indoors while you remain clothed and dressed will not only make your partner feel humbled but will else enforce a feeling on superiority on you.  After our two month period you evaluate and work forward to something that pleases you. That could be for example a male servant uniform to be worn inside the house (Maybe something you made yourself?) or you could keep him naked if that pleases you more. Wearing these clothing will feel like a reward considering he spend two months being naked. IF he starts acting up again you take away his clothing. Of course with being naked it becomes even more important that he keeps his body in shape and gets rid of nasty hairs. Therefore make sure he shaves at regular intervals (face daily, chest/pubes/arms(incl. armpits) every other day, legs weekly) or wax your slave.

Making him wear panties inside the house instead of complete nakedness could be an alternative and is fully up to your discretion ;-). I would also suggest a collar to be worn inside the house to further the feeling of being owned. A nice touch is to add a dog tag with a funny text such as 'this slut is owned by Miss Nienke' or a registration number from the Slave Register. 

Furniture

To sit on a chair, lay on a couch or sleep in a bed should be a privilege for your partner, not a basic right. Make his sit on the floor instead of sit on the couch for starters. When you have dinner  do so at your dinner table instead of in front of the TV and let him server you. While you eat he has to stand behind you (out of your sight but within range when you want your wine refilled). He may eat when you are satisfied and the table is cleaned. As he is a servant he eats in the kitchen standing at the counter. As extra humiliation you could limit what he eats to your left overs scraped together in a bowl. For a slave to be in your bed is one of the greatest virtues in his life and the bedroom should be your sanctity were you can have your alone time if needed. Make him sleep in the corridor in front of your bedroom door. Depending on his behavior he may have a blanket and/or a pillow. I went as far as moving his nightstand and cloths to our spare bedroom and redecorated my bedroom in a more feminine way; my bedroom is my private retreat :-). I also get a better nights' rest this way as my partner tends to turn a lot in his sleep.

Again, after this two month period being allowed on the couch to cuddle, to sleep in your bed or to eat together with you will feel like a great reward. Give these rewards as he deserves them and take them away if he starts slacking. 

Commands

After a week or two start teaching him some of these basic commands. 

Leave: he needs to immediately leave the room/space you are occupying.

Sit: he kneels, hands behind his back, eyes towards the floor
Down: he lays down on his belly, legs together, face turned towards his left shoulder, hands behind his backs
Crawl: He kneels then drops to all fours, forearms and lower legs flat on the ground and head lowered, he then crawls to you until his head touches your feet.
Silence: he may not speak until you say so.

Once these commands are learned they will benefit you forever. 

Discipline

As written in this post, rigorously adhering to a schedule of weekly discipline session for a submissive partner is very important.  At a scheduled time each week, you and your partner know that you will have him over your lap, over the back of a chair, or over the edge of the bed for an extended session with the cane or what

ever tool you select. Keep track of disobedience on a notepad if necessary. If your partner displeased you in any way make sure you show it during his discipline session. You know you hit hard enough when the welts of your cane are still visible the day after. As spring is coming a good alternative to a cane is fetching young fresh branches in a nearby park (a so called switch)! Discipline is something that should be inducted from the start and kept after the two month period. The intensity of the discipline should be related to the slaves behavior in such a way that he connects the two.

Chores
I know that most of your partners work but that should not mean he doesn't participate in maintaining the household. Give him a clear schedule of chores to perform on a daily basis (and enforce that he does them!). The example below will cover most of the areas in your house without taking up more then 30-45minutes of his time each workday and a bit more during weekends:

Daily: Wipe down the bathroom sink & toilet, sanitize food preparation areas & fill dishwasher
Monday: Sweep or vacuum high traffic areas
Tuesday: Mopping toilet, bathroom & kitchen floor
Wednesday: Clean kitchen cabinet doors
Thursday: Sweep or vacuum high traffic areas
Friday: Dust living room
Saturday: Mopping toilet, bathroom & kitchen floor & Project day
Sunday: Prepare for the week ahead


During the weekends you could add a more detailed schedule including getting up at a certain time to prepare you breakfast and serve you in bed!

Sex & targets
During these two months sex with your partner apart from taking him with a strap-on is out of the question. Set some targets for yourself and keep to them. For example: make sure to get at least four orgasms a week, visit your favorite chat site twice a week looking for potential lovers, flirt with at least one guy a week etc. I suggest halfway the two months to call your slave to you, make him kneel in front of you and to make him the promise that he will not be allowed to fuck you until another man has taken you. Don't worry, it doesn't matter if that takes a week or a year; there are plenty of alternatives for penetrative sex! The thought that he will not be able to be intimate with his girlfriend/wife until another real man has had you will make him nuts and the thought will make you extremely horny! Ideally you close of the two month program with a date (dinner, movie or more) with another man of course :-).Sites like Badoo are perfect for scoring a date btw!

Feel confident!

This might be the most important of all; you need to feel like a confident, sexy, independent woman who can take on the world. Make sure to read my posts on The importance of dressing (and acting) sexy and the golden rules for a dominant wife if you haven't yet.

Alternatives to penetrative sex

As most of you know by now I am very much against having penetrative sex with my submissive partner.

1.) Get a lover
I can't say it enough, getting a lover is a must for any dominant woman. Read some of my older articles for more background information as well. If you don't want to get a steady lover, invest in getting regular (erotic) massages from other guys or hook up with different guys (which I don't recommend) but it is very important
to let both yourself and your partner know that you are free to have interactions with other guys and to acknowledge the fact that penetrative sex with your partner does not satisfy you. The sooner you take this hurdle the better, for both of you.

2.) Get a dildo gag
Give your partner a mouthful and buy a Penis-Dildo Gag! These things are great as you can straddle your partner's face and ride him purely for your pleasure. The trick for a smooth ride is to make sure your partner lays flat on the bed or floor and as with any dildo make sure to lub it up good. Start slow and once you get the hang of it fuck his face proper!



3.) Get a penis extension sleeve
There are several types, and you should try a couple of them to find the one just right for you. One kind rolls

or slips on. It fits over the already hard dick. You need your partner to have a lasting erection to use it. Another kind is the strap-on extender. It is worn like a jockstrap and no erection is needed. I recommend using the second type. Make sure to buy a sleeve that fits your size requirements and make sure its thick enough to minimize pleasure for your partner. Riding his cock solely becomes about your pleasure like this!

Use either of these tips or a combination of them and make sure that this will be the only pussy your partner will get from now on:

Humiliation play ideas

Once in a while its necessary for your partner to come down to earth and know his place in life don't you agree? Here are some ideas on how to establish just that!

Make an online blog/photoalbum

I always snap some pictures while playing with my partner and at one place on the net I regularly post some of his pictures publicly. Always make sure his face is cut out or made unrecognizable! Make sure he receives regular updates of whats posted there!

Whore him out

I once did this one with my partner and will probably do so again in the near future. I placed an advertisement on a sex site (Sexjobs.nl) looking for a bi or gay guy, explaining that I was training my submissive husband to become a proper cocksucker. I secretly knew my partner would want to try sucking

another guy once but to come home from work and find a guy on our couch was still a big suprise for him! I aranged everything beforehand with the guy who turned out to be quite dominant himself and I simply told my hubby to get on his knees and give our guest a proper blowjob. We even made swallow. After he came he zipped up,  paid me 20 Euro's (which I gave him before my partner came home) in front of my hubby and left. Seriously without a doubt one of the hottest things I've ever seen!!!

Keep your distance worm!
An easy one: make your slave walk a few steps behind you on the street and always keep his hands behind his back.

Restaurant
Take him to a restaurant and tell him he is not allowed to talk. When the waiter brings menu's give one back and say one will be enough. Choose what he eats and order for him (maybe a childs menu or a healthy salad? :) ). 

Webcam
Sign him up for one of those pay per minute websites to earn you some extra cash! Could be either as a sissy or a gay slut, your call! A mask to hide identity could be added for privacy reasons. 

Accident
Make him drink 1.5 liters of water and take him out for a walk in the park. dont let him relief himself until he cant hold it anymore and pisses himself. Tell him to wait at that exact spot for 5 minutes until he can walk to the car. You walk back to the car straight away. Depending on how far you are from home you could decide to either wait for him (make him go in the booth to not stain the seats) or make him walk home. Alternatively you could make him pee like a dog on at night and film it :p.

SleepwearTry to find him pink pjamas. Or make him wear a nightie in bed. 

CarrierWhen you go out together make him carry your purse and all the shopping bags.

Proper attire
Buy him a feminine apron and make him wear it around the house. Yes, only an apron :-)Give him tasks and punish him hard if he does not comply. Never be satisfied no matter what he does.

Doggy
Make him wear a (pink?) dog collar and go for a walk.

ShoppingMake him go out & buy ladies undies in his size. Or maybe a fancy pair of heels for that special night out?

Lets take a drive
Dress him up as a sissy boy (corset, stockings, heels, stretchy skirt, lots of make-up) and take him for a ride in the evening/night. Drop him out on one side of a parking lot along a high way and drive to the other side. Make him do the walk of shame back to the car and drive away.










Also check out these scene ideas!

My little whore

My hubby has been acting awfully cocky during last week and I couldn't handle it anymore; something had to be done! As it turns out Saturday was waxing day and I gave my husband his bimonthly full body wax (I love it when he's nice and silky smooth, no yukky hairs yey!). Afterwards I made him thank me by giving me a nice foot rub and by painting my too nails. I told him it would be fun if he would paint his own too nails as well and so my plan began :D. So now I had a perfectly smooth hubby with red too nails, not so macho now huh?

As the day continued we had our dinner and watched a nice movie. After the movie ended I told him to wait downstairs while I put some things ready in the bed room. I put out a garter belt, a black corset and a pair of high heels we bought in his size a while back. We're not usually in to any sissification or anything so I knew this would surprise him! I went back downstairs and told him to go to the bedroom and ge
t ready with the stuff I put out and that I would join him in 15 minutes.

When I came up he was sitting on the edge of the bed with a flushed face, obviously not  very comfortable with the situation. I mentioned the corset could be a bit tighter and told him to get up. After strapping him in proper I took out my brightest shade of red lipstick and did his lips. When I was done I told him these powerful words: " You are nothing but a dirty whore to do with as I please, do you understand me?"

After a shy confirmation I took out my tool for the night: my favorite strap-on, a small bullet vibe and a photo camera. I began by making him do several 'sexy' poses for me while I snapped some pictures. After a while I got bored and it was time for phase two. I set on the edge of the bed and took out on of my romantic, slightly erotic, novels. I then placed the bullet vibe on my clit  behind the strap-on and put it on lowest. The I told him to be a good little whore and blow me. While he started sucking the strap-on in his queer outfit, I read my book. Occasionally I told him him to suck it deeper or faster. It took me while to come like this (a good 20 minutes or so).

After I came it was time for my little whore to take it like the little sissy boy he was. I tied his hand on his back, told him to get on his knees on the edge of the bed and bent over. After lubing the necessary parts up I gave him the fucking of a lifetime while he whimpered from pain and pleasure. I made sure to keep the camera near by and made a nice movie of him taking it like a little whore (sorry girls I wont post it, its for my private collection :-) ). After I was done with him I left him tied up in the bedroom for a while before untying him and asking him if he still felt like a macho man now; the look on his face was answer enough! And for those wondering, no - he didnt cum ;-).

Happy Valentines Day!

Tomorrow it's valentines day so Im here to give my girls some nice ideas to do!


Start with watching your favorite chick flick while you cuddle with your partner. Have him serve you crackers, cheese, fruit and wine (apart from a sexy pink thong and his chastity cage he is naked of course).

Then make him give you a nice long full body massage. Just to tease him you ask him to put on once of his many interracial sex movies (Im sure he's got a few). Tell him you just want to watch, no touching. After 15 minutes or so you ask him to get your favorite vibrator. Once he gets it for you send him out of the room and tell him to wait behind the door. Satisfy yourself while watching  'his' movie and make sure it's loud. Invite him back in once you're done.

Now it's time for his treat! grab your favorite strapon and make him lub it with his mouth (I think it is really hot when my hubby gives me a nice blowjob every now an then - add red lipstick for extra fun!) and give him a proper fucking afterwards. You might have gained some vocabulary from the movie you just watched; make sure to use your bitch good!

If you are feeling really generous, allow him to cum using a vibrator. Put a condom on him and then once he has cum, take the condom put it onto a dildo or your strap-on and cut a small hole in the end of the condom. If you want you can watch the cum drip onto his tongue, put the dildo just above his mouth and make him stick his tongue out, or simply make him suck you again.

Alternatively you could of course just have dinner with your lover and spend the night with him while hubby cleans the house. Im sure he'll love that too!