Spring is in the air!

Although it definitely does not look like it in the Netherlands, spring is well on its way and it is time to take action for both us girls and our slaves! Here is a list of things to do or catch up on before summer now that you still have the chance!

1.) Skirts & dresses (and stockings!)
I cant say it enough; all women are beautiful and should dress the part! No more jeans and loose shirts! You feminine when wearing a skirt or a dress. If you want to catch that sexy tanned guy this summer, you better dress the part ladies! If you feel especially sexy, leave your panties at home and feel the warm summer air caress your thighs. Might be a bit frightening at start but you will get used to it ;-).
will look and feel a lot more

2.) Heels
It is imperative that you wear heels when you go out as it will make you look sexy and feel a lot more confident in yourself. Walking in heels makes the movement of a woman's lower limbs more sensual. In fact, high-heeled shoes adjust women's body proportions to come closer to perceived ideals, as well.Not used to wearing heels a lot? No worries check out my guide!

3.) Body language
Confidence.  Flirty attitude.  Eye contact.  Body language.  MANY things can signal that you’re fun!  I

personally believe that regular eye contact and body language, followed by confidence and being flirty are major factors to make you a happier person.  If you’re out – either alone, with your partner or with a group of friends – at a bar or club, you don’t want to be standing against the wall sipping a drink and hiding your face from everyone. If you do happen to be standing against the wall, why not sway with the music?  Look around and smile at the guys?  Don’t cross your arms, but dance a little bit? Or walk around the room making eye contact and saying hello.  You never know what guy will stop you and start a great conversation. Many of us think we lack the confidence or ability to flirt, but there’s always the old saying “fake it until you make it”… be in character, pretend you’re the hottest woman in the room!  ;)





4.) Girls night out!
This is particularly effective if you have single friends. Take a night out with your girlfriends, at least once monthly. Have a few drinks and use the alcohol as an excuse for your flirtations, if you need an excuse. Return home with tales of other men flirting with you, buying drinks, more cell phone pictures, etc. Exaggerate if you must— or better yet, return with a phone number…. or another man.


5.) Strap it on!
Now that you are back on your a-game it is also time to bring your partner back down to earth! If a man gets the strap-on frequently, over time his body and brain will adjust to his new circumstance, and all kinds of changes, both physical and psychological, will happen. His sexual pleasure zone, for example, will slowly start to shift from the head of his penis to his asshole. This change will be accelerated if his penis is locked up 24/7, and the only time he’s allowed to cum is when he’s fucked in the ass. His body and brain will eventually start to associate anal penetration with orgasm.

Over time he will begin to not only enjoy it, he will start to crave it. Such that if you withhold the strap-on for a while, and don’t let him cum, he will miss it, become extremely anxious about it, and will eventually ask you for it. That’s when you know that all your patience training efforts with him have paid off.

Do not under any circumstance let him penetrate you as you may undo your hard work. There are plenty of alternatives to penetrative sex to satisfy you.

6.) Grooming 
Just like you have to make sure you look the part, your partner will also have to look like the submissive worthless little looser that he really is, right? Make sure your partner is waxed or at least shaved properly. The less body hair the better. If you decided not to wax, make sure you give him a shaving regime. I found the schedule below to work for me:
 - Legs, pubes (incl. ass) every 3 days
 - Arms (incl. arm pits) twice a week
 - Chest every other day
 - Back (if needed) once a week (I highly suggest at least waxing the back!!)
Make him adhere to the schedule and inspect regular!

7.) Game time
When the weather improves so do the opportunities for us to play outside :-)

One of my favorites is to dress him up as a sissy boy (corset, stockings, heels, stretchy skirt, lots of make-
up) and take him for a ride in the evening/night. Drop him out on one side of a parking lot along a high way and drive to the other side. Make him do the walk of shame back to the car! Alternatively you could drive to a local park, let him out on one side and tell him to walk to the other side where you will be waiting to pick
him up. If you can find a particularly quiet place you could fuck him while bend over the hood to make his humiliation complete.

If you are more in to puppy play you could take him to a park and walk him like the silly little dog he is.
Or alternatively give him a good spanking while bend over a park bench. If you prefer to avoid the park during the night you could go during the day instead. There is tons of things you may do in the park such as telling him to rub your feet while you sit on a bench and he kneels in front of you. or making him wear a nice (pink?) dog collar out in public.I even once found a secluded spot and told my partner to lay down, then stood over him and peed right on his face! How humiliated he was when i made him walk back to the car 10 meter a head of me :-).

When summer comes you might also want a little more space in bed (I hate sticky bodies ugh). If you earn a garden shed, why not make him sleep in there, perhaps attach a piece of chain to the wall there and chain him to make sure he doesn't run away :)