Alternatives to penetrative sex

As most of you know by now I am very much against having penetrative sex with my submissive partner.

1.) Get a lover
I can't say it enough, getting a lover is a must for any dominant woman. Read some of my older articles for more background information as well. If you don't want to get a steady lover, invest in getting regular (erotic) massages from other guys or hook up with different guys (which I don't recommend) but it is very important
to let both yourself and your partner know that you are free to have interactions with other guys and to acknowledge the fact that penetrative sex with your partner does not satisfy you. The sooner you take this hurdle the better, for both of you.

2.) Get a dildo gag
Give your partner a mouthful and buy a Penis-Dildo Gag! These things are great as you can straddle your partner's face and ride him purely for your pleasure. The trick for a smooth ride is to make sure your partner lays flat on the bed or floor and as with any dildo make sure to lub it up good. Start slow and once you get the hang of it fuck his face proper!



3.) Get a penis extension sleeve
There are several types, and you should try a couple of them to find the one just right for you. One kind rolls

or slips on. It fits over the already hard dick. You need your partner to have a lasting erection to use it. Another kind is the strap-on extender. It is worn like a jockstrap and no erection is needed. I recommend using the second type. Make sure to buy a sleeve that fits your size requirements and make sure its thick enough to minimize pleasure for your partner. Riding his cock solely becomes about your pleasure like this!

Use either of these tips or a combination of them and make sure that this will be the only pussy your partner will get from now on: