Captions of the day!

So true :-)

And so familiar!

Isnt he cute? :p

Some golden rules for the dominant wife

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This will be me tonight

I hope you will have an equally nice evening girls!

The Importance of Cuckolding

I’m posting this in response to a question I had recently from a woman who was tempted to start cuckolding her husband (on his request) but wasn't quite sure how to handle it.

Cuckolding is often seen from the outside as simply a casual sex opportunity, but to truly enjoy it as a
lifestyle, couples need to explore the mental and emotional aspects of enabling other males to have a sexual role in the marriage.Cuckolding is a very deep and intense expression of love. Cuckolding takes the foundation of a stable, loving marriage and extends it to include another male in a sexual role within the relationship.

When the love & companionship components of your relationship are fully satisfying, but the sexual component isn’t, it makes little sense to give up a great relationship simply to enjoy better sex. It also makes little sense to give up enjoying a fulfilling sexual experience when you have the foundation needed to have it all. In most relationships it actually is the male partner that will bring up cuckolding. Why would you ignore something that will satisfy his deepest needs and satisfy your sexual needs at the same time?

This seems counter-intuitive, but when a couple can capitalize on something that divides most couples, they become much stronger. For many couples, both partners seek an experience (for him to be cuckolded, for her to be sexually satisfied) they can’t find between the two of them. It could be that your husband/boyfriend has a small penis, lacks stamina or is simply not the assertive personality you fantasize about giving yourself to. Cuckolding allows you as a couple to experience greater sexual satisfaction while still enjoying the other aspects of your relationship. If you think about it, it’s much easier to find someone sexually compatible than someone compatible to share your life with, making this dynamic a natural fit for many couples who want their love and their sex to be fulfilling.

There’s an incredible amount of trust that is involved in cuckolding and more than that, for all that it would seem that the husband involved is submissive, it takes an incredible amount of self-security to watch another man do intimate things with your wife so don't think less of your guy for bringing this up!

An added bonus is that you will most likely get out more often as you'll be dating again which. apart from a lot of excitement, gives you a great opportunity for shopping for new sexy cloths and lingerie. Your husband/boyfriend will love taking you shopping for that pair of high heels, that slim dress or that sexy lingerie set, especially when you make it clear it's not him you are buying it for ;-)

We've introduced cuckolding to our relationship a few years back and it has enhanced our sex life in a multitude of ways. I've never regretted the decision once so far. Let your inner sexiness out and give it a try. 

A good suggestion to get started for those with cold feet is by finding a guy on the internet and after chatting for a few days, invite him for dinner at your place or at a restaurant if a public place is more comfortable for you (you could combine this with the role play ideas I posted a few days back: link). Be openly flirtatious and intimate with him with your boyfriend/husband present. I suggest you give your hubby small tasks to perform while you entertain your lover to be.

This isn’t just to keep him busy, but to demonstrate that you are the one in control when your lover is present. Have your
boyfriend/husband get drinks or hang up your (and your lover's) coat, for example. When he returns, he should find you snuggled up to your lover on the couch (your hands playfully stroking the bulge of your boyfriend’s cock?). After this point it will be up to you if you want to continue and if this will be with your partner present or if you send him out of the house. If he isn't around (which might be more comfortable for you the first few times), you will have all the more fun telling him all the dirty details once he arrives back home!

An easier life in practice

Making your life easier starts by taking away the things that you don't like in your life. Men should be doing part of the housework because it relieves you of some or all of the routine and drudgery allowing you to pursue personal interests, a career or just relaxation. It's all about female empowerment. And doing housework makes men appreciate just how difficult it is to keep a home neat, orderly and running efficiently.

Write down the five things you hate to do, don't read on until you made the list.

Handy Crafting!

People wear clothing to protect their bodies against nature, to define their social roles, and to express their personalities.So what better way to indicate the status of your insignificant other by making him wear a special outfit while inside the house :-).

Get creative with a few burlap sacks and come up with an outfit for him to wear while at home. It saves in money, defines roles and gives you a few hours of joy. Get his measurements and make a nice outfit for a few euro's.

To augment his servant status you could get an old sheet and some lace and augment his outfit with a nice classical apron.  

He will learn to enjoy wearing this sign of his subservience, also because he knows he wears it because you demand he does.

On special occasions you could tell him to make sure he only wears the apron (or augment it with some nice panties) to give an evening just that little touch it sometimes needs!

Some mid-week inspiration ;-)

Always remind them that this was their idea!

 

So true ;-)

 

Sometimes we just need a moment like this..

 

Black usually wins for me :-)

 Show him who's boss!

 

What a lucky guy :-)

A great way for re-establishing roles in your relationship ;-)

 

Some awesome captions for the weekend!

 

Role play idea's

Some nice things to spice up your sex life and keep him (and you) interested!


Just having a chat..
Wear something sexy, preferably a skirt with stockings and no panties, and get yourself comfortable behind your computer (or laptop). Find a decent chat site and hang about a bit until you meet someone you like talking to. Once engaged in a friendly conversation (it doesnt have to be more then that) call your hubby and ask him to get your a glass of wine.

When he comes make sure he sees you are not wearing panties and have the chat window open. If he asks what you are doing keep it simple and reply with "Oh, just having a chat". If he asks who you are talking to reply with "Just some guy". Dont give any more details then that!

Polity ask him to go away because a girl needs some privacy ;-) ake sure to ask him to close the door behind him. Stay there for another hour or so and even maybe ask for a refill :p Let his fantasy do the rest and let him lick you to orgasm after you are done!

Some good Dutch chat sites are:
www.chatgirl.nl
www.chattijd.nl
www.gratis-sex-chat.nl
www.flirt.nu

Going out to play
When you go hang out with girlfriends give it some extra effort and dress up extra sexy and plainly ask him if he thinks you look the part. Mention you imagine you'll get a lot of attention tonight and smile deviously. Make sure to let him know indirectly that you're going hunting for attention.

Afterwards when you come back you can tease him (during sex or otherwise just because you can) with all the guys you danced with (even if you didnt) and how you could feel their big cocks trough their pants and their hands feeling you up. Tell him that one of them (a handsome black guy) asked you to go home with him for an after party but you didn't because you were tired or because you didn't want to leave your friend alone. You could drop that he did give you his phone number though.Make all of this sound like it is the most common thing in the world.





The minds' eye
While having sex with your boyfriend tell him not to speak as you are trying to pretend he is someone else. Choose someone from work or a mutual friend for this imaginary lover. Choose positions in which you wont
be able to see him (straddle his face and make him lick you, ride him with your back towards him or ask him to do you doggy style (make sure to slip in a disappointed "is it in yet?"). Make sure to moan the name of your fictional lover ;-)

Afterwards make him clean your pussy and ask him if he likes licking up <insert lovers name>'s cum!