Thursday, 1 January 2015

How to make a Sissy 101 part 2

A few months ago I did a basic article on how to make a sissy.

In this post I would like to elaborate a bit on that article. Most men who want to be sissy gurls (like my husband) need this for stress relief. It's not something he or you should be ashamed of. We are who we are and its our job as leading ladies in their lives to make them feel accepted. He wants this but even more so he wants you to 'force/guide' him.

In this article I will give you some practical handles on how to give him what he needs without having to fall in to the same routine every time. The previous post is important and you should read it before reading this post. Some of the basics just need to be followed. A sissy has as no or little as possible body hair and painting his (toe) nails is a good start and a daily reminder.

You can take things a step further on preset times. For example weekends could be full on sissy time if/when you are alone where after work hours are just limited. Whats written below seems a bit much to you most likely but there is no need to do it all at once. start slowly and build things up over the weeks a head of you.

Ok so practical handles....

Panties
Panties are key for any submissive male but especially for sissy boys. Make sure he wears them when he's at home at all times. If your partner has an office job like mine, the first thing he does when he gets home is probably to ditch his suit. This would be a good time for him to also ditch his boy underwear and put on something frilly. If he's more daring then you may also 'force' him to wear his girly panties to work. Keep one or two pair of his old underwear for special occasions (hide them) and leave his girly panties for him to wear. Which route you choose is up to you..

Stockings 
My hubby loves them and I'm sure your partner does as well. I suggest making him wear them after work and in the weekend by default. And why not make him wear stockings under his pants when you go grocery shopping (really, no one will notice..)?  During the week these could be normal stockings (skin colored or black etc) with his normal jeans on top and during the weekend these could be self hold up stockings or sexy stockings with a suspender belt.

Wig
If you hubby has short hair he'll need a wig. In the Netherlands we have a festivity called carnaval in February where people dress up so we usually go out to costume shops and noone will even look odd at you when fitting a wig no matter if you are male or female! As a bonus these wigs are cheap as well. Buy something that looks like a normal (though slutty) girl would have a a hairdo and not something green or orange or whatever. The wig can be saved for the weekend.

Wardrobe
One thing I did with my hubby when he confessed to be a sissy boy was the following: I took him upstairs, opened my closet and said 'if you could choose one item from my wardrobe, what would it be'. He chose a cute loose fitting dress. I made him fit it and told him he could keep it (it looked kinda cute on him!). It actually almost brought him to tears! I did make him wear it for the whole day!  Either way, in the weekend he will be a sissy gurl so he will need two outfits. Buy him a plaid 'schoolgirl' skirt or stretchy skirt and a dress.

You can get a skirt on E-bay as cheap as 2-3 USD. Dresses and tops are harder and best ordered online in a shop with a good return policy or fitted in a big mall without nosey salespeople. The last option is much more fun! last but not least: he will need a good sturdy corset or a waist cincher to give him a more feminine waistline!

Things that work: plaid skirts, stretchy skirts, dresses that are loose around the waist, hot pants. For tops go with something that covers his arms and shoulders.

Apart from that wig, panties and stockings he will also need a pair of heels. My favorite is to send him out alone without a bank card and just some cash and tell him not to come back until he finds a pair of heels but you can also just order these online.

If he (or you) is in to it you should definitely also buy him a maids' uniform ;-)

Make-up
Very important! During the week there is probably no time for makeup but during the weekend it is all the more important. Saturday morning after a fresh shower and removal of any hair a sissy shouldnt have, you do his make-up. Sissy boys wear make-up the slutty way (red lips, rouge, blue eyes) not like us classy girls. More on this in my previous post (hint: the key is lots of foundation!). Get crazy every now and then with eyelash extensions and fake nails as well!




Other fun stuff to try out
 - Take him out for a car ride at night (and drop him off somewhere abandoned, drive around the block and pick him up (works great cause he doesn't know when you'll be back.).
 - If you are from Holland you could drop him off somewhere during Carnaval and make him walk home (the walk of shame).
 - Teaching him to walk on 6 inch heels the whole day will be a challenge on its own ;-).
 - So will teaching him feminine manners.
 - Learn him to deepthroat a dildo (make him practice 'cock sucking' for half an hour each Saturday evening. Depending how kinky you are you could eventually arrange for a real guy to come by and let him 'practice' on him (don't forget to make pictures!). We did and it was one of the best experiences we both had! I made him blow a guy in our living room that I found through an ad on the internet and made the guy pay me 10 Euros (which I gave him earlier on). He even thanked me for the use of my whore :-)!
 - Do a photoshoot so you have some 'blackmail' material.Get some of them printed as an extra bonus.
 - If you allow him out of chastity tell him he is only allowed to cum using a vibrator (like a girl).
 - Go shop for womens jeans or a womens top with him and make him wear it in public (no one will notice but he will know).
- Make him wear rouge on his cheeks in public (no one will see anything but he will know).
- Get his ears pierced!







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  2. Thank you a lot Miss Nienke. Your posts are ultimately precious and i learn a lot from it .... It makes me surrendering more to myself as a sissy, and it pushes me to work more on myself to be more useful for the Dominant Woman i belong to .

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