Being a sissy

What makes for a good sissy? The primary sissy traits are submission, devotion, humility, obedience, and the like. Consider this. These are deep mental and emotional positions. They are the cornerstones upon which actions must be based. A good sissy seeks to serve her dominant in any and all ways. I would like to bring to light the many ways that sissies should serve and may be presently deficient.


A well trained sissy knows how to keep a clean and maintain house. We all like the notion of the sissy maid. Partially because the uniform is revealing and the position is humiliating, but also because the sissy has a place and a job to accomplish purely within the confines of her sissy life. A sissy should be able to efficiently clean without any problem. That means dusting, vacuuming, streak-free windows and mirrors, mopping, scrubbing, etc. This is a sissy skill that should be practiced and perfected. You can learn plenty about a sissy simply by looking at her panty drawer. Too often, you will see balled up, unkempt panties in a state of disrepair. A good sissy keeps all her panties folded neatly and sorted either by color or by style or by some other logical organizational style. If she really wants to impress, she should keep a small bag of potpourri or other delicate aromatics in with her panties so the drawer always smells fresh and clean. This is almost never seen, but I feel a good sissy would know this simple tool in keeping up her wardrobe. Imagine that level of attention paid throughout the house. That is the level I feel a sissy should strive for.


Sissies should define themselves through clothing. This is critical to their development. Most sissies seem to have only a few pairs of panties. That is a good starting point, but a real sissy needs more. The next step is a bra. Sissies tend to avoid this, but it is an important piece of clothing to a woman. A basic A cup will fit most and really help with the submission. Tights and stockings help the look as well. However, a true devotee will want more than just lingerie. She will seek to blossom into a developed position. Early on, these often include outfits for maids, cheerleaders, schoolgirls, etc. This is a great way to deepen submission through girly styles that seem to make sissies shy and sheepish. I love when a sissy first wears a new outfit and presents herself humbly and quietly, with her eyes looking straight down at the floor. The submission is incredible! For you girls out there who are having a hard time transitioning into an outfit, let me suggest a few that are easier to come by. First, try being a Hooters girl. I love this look. It is relatively simple to put together. Even easier is to cut the legs off some old jeans (make sure they are very tight) to make your own short shorts and get a femmy top. It is a great look. In addition, you should consider what a sissy should sleep in. This is another simple outfit to change. A good sissy would try to transition into being more female.


In addition to clothing, many sissies need to work on make-up. There are two routes to go. Either legitimately try to copy women or go way over the top and try for a whore look (my favorite). Both are great, but pick one and do it. There is nothing worse than a sissy with a unibrow. In addition to your face, maintain your fingernails. Even if you can’t paint them permanently, consider a clear coat. Even if this seems too much, all of you could grow them a little long and keep them well filed. Work on the cuticles as well. These are girly skills that sissies should have. Think of how proud women are when they have beautiful nails. They love to show off their style. Sissies should do the same. I personally have never heard a sissy boast about her nails. Too bad.


I feel that most sissies are indifferent to their physical appearance. It would be nice if a few would take the time and effort to achieve real results in their physical form. Virtually all real women have been on a diet at some point in their life. This would seem like a logical behavior to emulate. Besides, a real sissy girl wouldn’t want a bloody red steak and beer, would she? Also, there is an infinite supply of workout videos for the female market. I wish more sissies took the time to put on a leotard and do some exercising. I think a devoted sissy would be fit, with lean legs and a firm, bubble shaped ass. Men like women who possess these abilities, shouldn’t sissies strive for them?


I know that it sounds old fashioned, but men don’t cook. Sissies should be experts at food preparation. Moreover, sissies must know how to properly serve. As a dominant, I can only imagine how wonderful it would be for a sissy to invite me to her place for dinner. (Besides the fact that she should be proud to show off her house!) A true seven course meal served properly and humbly would make my night wonderful. I would bet that most dominants, male or female feel the same way. This is a duty that goes right back to the submissive sissy maid role that I previously discussed. It would be well worth the effort for a sissy to learn this skill.


Women enjoy dancing. Men don’t. Unless men are watching a woman dance. Sissies need to learn to entertain their dominants. Taking a massage class would be a good start. But here I will focus on dance. Not a waltz or a foxtrot. Pole Dancing or a striptease would be a starting point. Sissies should learn to dance to excite. I mean stripping. I would love to meet a sissy with a dancing pole in her bed room. Imagine the show. Lap dancing is another essential female tool for entertaining men. These are all things so delicate and obviously feminine that no real man would do it. Perfect for sissies. Ballet is also a good alternative, mostly because I would love to see my sissy in a tutu.


Sissies seem to crave some level of humiliation. This is a universal truth about all submissives. Sissies need to be humbled in a special way. They must be constantly reminded of their position of subservience. Most believe, however, that this means being verbally degraded and slight pain. Real humiliation comes in many forms. I believe that an obedient sissy will take her shame well. So what constitutes humiliation? I have a few ideas. A sissy will sit to pee. I insist whenever possible that my sissies pee in front of me. This is very embarrassing. Sissies need enemas, as well. I would expect any sissy to enema herself each day of the weekend before I have my way with her. She should be clean and ready to be used. A good sissy would also maintain her genitals. I like girls who wax their crotch clean saving only a femmy “landing strip”. This is embarrassing to the sissy, and she will think about it all day, every day. Humiliation comes from doing things you don’t want to, not from being told your dick is small.


Many sissies need to fix their name. Period. Picking a girl’s name is not enough. I am tired of seeing sissies named Mary, Wendy, etc. Being a sissy means so much more than just being feminine. Try a name that represents yourself better. Some ideas are: Trixie, Vicky, Dolly, Candy, Lilly, etc. You need to think along the lines of a James Bond girl. Dominants like girls with slutty, creative names.


I hope that I have presented a few ideas to help deepen the role that sissies should play. My purpose is not to offend anyone, but rather to give constructive ideas about improving the ways that sissies should serve.