How to humble your partner

After growing in to the lifestyle you might come at a point where your partner is growing a bit to confident for his role in your relationship. In this article I will try to give you some ideas to implement in your relationship that might counter this effect. I'd advice you to try these pointers for a period of time and see what works for you! All of these pointers evolve around the concept that he is your property and that he is not a real man.

1.) Get him naked! Nothing says 'I am above you' more then you wearing your every day clothes and him being naked. Simply tell him you want him to undress and remain naked when ever he is at home. Be firm about this and try it for at least a month before deciding if it works for you or not. It might be a bit awkward for starters but you'll both get used to it and learn to enjoy it. It's also an easy way to check if it is time for his monthly wax or if he's trimming his pubic hair properly as instructed. Additionally you could require him to wear a nice ribbon around the base of his penis or simply require him to keep his panties on. If you are in to it you could even require him to wear hold up stockings (I love the combination of waxed legs with hold up stockings, a nice pink ribbon and a pink dog collar with fake diamond studs!).

2.) Cage time! I cant tell you enough but locking up your husband at least one evening (2-3h) during workdays and at least 4-6h each weekend will make sure he knows his position. Don't include any playtime with cage time, simply tell him to come to you, lock him up and leave him; no comments and no explanation! You are his owner, he is your slave; there is no need to explain your property why you do a certain thing.

 

3.) Humiliation shopping! One of my favorites!! Take him to a big cheap shoe store (Dutchies: Bristol, Scapino etc) and make him fit some nice high heels that you picked. Demand that he walks on them for a bit so you can see if they look good on him. Make sure he wears hold up stockings under his pants for a proper fit! Bigger stores are better for this as they often give more privacy. In a large pet store or the pet department of a large department store you can pick out a nice (pink?) dog collar and make him hold them against his neck for you to decide what looks good on him. Another great thing I like to do is visit a department store (Dutchies; V&D or C&A!) and let my partner fit some new women's panties or a (training) bra.


4.) Verbal communication! This might be one of the most important things; verbally let him know that you are his owner or he is not a real man once a day. It could be while you are both watching TV and you simply tell him he is pathetic or by replying with 'thats not how you address your owner slut' when ever he says something remotely inappropriate. Making sure he addresses you with Ma'am or Miss is another way to assert the right hierarchy in your household. Additionally you could require him to ask permission to ask a question ('Miss, may I please ask a question?') instead of just blurting out his foolishness.



5.) Get a lover! The easiest and best way for both of you to acertain the fact he is not a real man is by letting another man in your relationship to satisfy you sexually (something he obviously can't do). Even if you are nervous or have some feelings against this lifestyle (which is normal in this kind of society I guess) try to ease in to it by chatting to otehr guys in a chat box from the safety of your own home and slowly let that evolve in asking someone out for a drink. You'll know when you found the right guy and from that moment on you'll never want it any other way!