Why dont you tell them?

It is rather embarrassing and thrilling when someone notices or remarks on it.

Sophie's succes story

This was his first solid week locked in chastity and the results were amazing. Just like I’ve read. I’ve locked him up for short periods of time before, but this was our first trial period for extended lock up. We started on a Friday evening. The lock snapped shut at 8pm and the only key went around my neck, to be worn for the entire week. By Sunday night the effects began showing. Yes, there was some whining, begging, and general complaining. This was expected. When it got to be to much, I sternly told him to stop or we’d begin adding time. Those words did the the trick each time.

On Monday when he complained about the device pulling on his hairs, I removed it and trimmed most of his hair off, leaving only about ¼ inch. The device went back on right after the shaving. I loved the new “neater” look and thought to myself “this is how all small white cocks should look”. By Tuesday I began seeing a remarkable difference in his behavior and overall attitude. I came home from a long day at work and found all the household chores done. The vacuuming, the dishes, the dusting, almost everything.This was unheard of. It had only been 4 days and I was already loving the results. 

We spent the entire evening watching TV while he rubbed my feet. We ended the evening with him lapping my pussy for ½ hour and bringing me to multiple over the top orgasms. This was a turning point for me. If I had ever had any doubt that locking up his cock was the right decision, those doubts were gone. All the articles and stories I read were dead on. I was ecstatic and already began plotting how I would make this “trial period” a permanent arrangement. 

The rest of the week saw him submission deepen each and every day. On Wednesday he went to his underwear drawer and found all his boxers replaced with my own panties. With the confused look on his face I crept up behind him and reached around to cup his little locked cock in my hand, I whispered heavy in his ear:

“Honey, with your little cock neatly shaved and locked away, it looks so feminine, so I thought why not take the next step and keep you in panties for the rest of your trial period”

He hesitated only briefly before picking up beautiful green selection and stepping into them. My pussy immediately became moist. I don’t think I have ever been happier in our relationship. The road we were heading down was even better then I had fantasized. I turned him around and pulled out my phone to snap a picture. I wanted this moment saved for ever. He instinctively moved his hands in front of his crotch to cover his panty clad locked cock. In my new realm of female dominance I saw this as an act of disobedience that could not be tolerated. Without thinking I physically pushed him against the wall hard. The look on my face must have been pretty angry, because I recognized the fear in his eyes. I spoke firmly and deliberately:

“Listen to me you bitch! I own that cock and I own you. If you disrespect me like that again you’ll buy yourself another week in lock up. Is that clear?”

“Yes ma’am, I’m sorry” was his only reply.

I slapped his face hard. “Don’t forget who is charge here!”, i said as i fondled the key that hung from around my neck.  I took the pics I wanted. 

He meekly nodded in agreement. The lack of fight he put up was telling. HIs submission to my verbal and physical attack was feeding my already growing feelings of power and dominance. My emotions were running high and it felt like another milestone moment in our journey towards a Female Led Relationship was unfolding right before me. 

I was caught in the moment. Already dressed for the office I quickly removed my pants and threw him on the bed. The events that had led up to this had my pussy sopping wet. I mean I had just slapped him in the face and called him a bitch, and he did nothing. 

I mounted his face and began grinding out an orgasm. He didn’t resist. I don’t think he could have if he wanted to. My thighs were clamped around his head and my pussy was ravaging his face. 

“You understand you’re my bitch now don’t you?”

“Yeth” all I could hear from under my hungry pussy. 

I lifted up for only a second: “What are you to me”

“I’m your bitch” Came his immediate answer.

Perfect I though to myself. I finished and quickly for dressed again and headed off for work. 

On my drive in I thought about the scene. First the humiliation he must have felt when I announced that he would be wearing women’s underwear from now on. Then the humbling emotion when I physically pushed him into the wall and slapped his face, before forcibly queening him. Then finally the pictures of his locked, shaved, and pantied cock. I imagine he feared what would happen with those? Who would I show them too? 

At this point I knew that this is what I wanted. I wanted this trial period too become a permanent lifestlye. We would both be happier, it would improve our relationship and deepen our love for each other. Studies have shown this to be true and my own experiences reinforced this.

On Friday I spent most of the day at work reading more articles and guides on building a loving Female Led Relationship. Saturday morning, the time we had designated for his release, was coming up and I really didn’t want this to end. Why would I? 

• I hadn’t had to do any housework all week. My bitch did it all
• I got waited on hand and foot at night
• Foot rubs and worshipping every night
• And all the oral sex a girl could handle.

It was perfect. If I unlocked him Saturday morning, I feared all the progress we made this week would be in vain, and we’d be starting at square one again. I just couldn’t allow that to happen. But I had given my word at the beginning that this would be a trial period. Of course I could just “Change my mind”, but what if I could make it his idea to continue?

Friday night is here and and my perfectly behaved caged man is at my side. All the housework done, pretty panties covering his weak little white dick. I’m wearing my tightest pajama bottom and stroking his cage, over the panties, and asking if he’s excited about it being removed tomorrow? Of course he is. I’m whispering in his ear how much I’ve enjoyed this week and how I feel we’ve made tremendous strides. His cock is straining against the cage. I tell him he can take of the panties. His cock is not dripping precum. I reach down and wipe a drop of with my finger. I raise my finger to his mouth and he obediently sucks it dry. 

I tell him to get on his knees while I remove my pajama bottoms. Constantly reminding him that tomorrow is his big day. I lay back down on the couch, and much like the past week, ask him if he’d like to eat my pussy. Of course the answer is an exuberant “YES”. He begins to approach, but I stop him. “Maybe you should have to wait?”

I turned over and guide head to within inches of my ass. I let my cheeks brush his face and his lips. “How would you like to worship my ass instead?”. 

“I’d really rather eat your pussy”

“That’s not an option tonight” I kept my tone friendly but decisive.

“If that’s my only choice then of course I want to worship your ass”

I should point out that in 4 years together, he has never properly worshipped my ass. I think most women who are not in a Female Led Relationship are missing out on this very pleasurable experience. Another reason to chastize your man and make him your bitch. 

I brought his face to withing an inch of my ass before stoppng.

 “If that’s your only choice? No, you have a much tougher choice to make now bitch. How bad do you want to worship this ass in your face?”

I was stroking his cage. Precum was furiously leaking out. I knew what the answer would be. He was in a frenzied state and would do or say anything. 

“Please let me lick your ass”, he begged

Here was the moment of truth: 

“Okay, I will let you do that, but in return you have to agree to go one more week in chastity. The choice is yours. You can say no and we’ll stop the teasing tonight and let you cum tomorrow as planned”

During this whole discussion his face was an inch from my ass. I felt each breath against my exposed cheeks. 

“I’m sorry honey. I know this is a tough decision. I know how badly you want to lick my asshole, but you also have been waiting to come tomorrow. You can only have one, what will it be?”

No immediate response. After a few seconds I said “You’ve got 10 seconds to decide”

HIs breath hastened. I began counting down. I got to five then I felt it. His lips on my asshole. Oh my god! I’m overwhelmed! A week ago there would be no chance of him ever eating my ass. Now he’s giving up an orgasm to do it!

“You know what this means honey?”

He murmured a yes as his tongue began exploring my ass. 

“Oh baby, I’m very happy with the decision you’ve made. Look at how far we came, and now we have another week to go. I love you my bitch”

I was triumphant. He truly was my bitch and we were on our way to a fulltime FLR. I was true to my word. He didn’t get the privilege of eating my pussy that night, but all efforts were directing at pleasing my previously neglected ass. How humiliating. How degrading. How truly loving. I lost track of time as I fell into and out of bliss. 

A locked man truly will do anything. 

Cleaning time!

Ask yourself, when is the last time your husband or boyfriend has cleaned like this? Lock him up and I guarantee he’ll become the best maid you’ve ever had. Locking his small white cock and denying him orgasms is the quickest way to teach him his role

Getting Ready for a Date with Other Men

The set up before the date is half the fun!

• That week tease eachother but don’t have sex 2 days before the date 

•  Do let him lick you every evening but just before you cum make him stop

• Go lingerie shopping ahead of time with your husband. Pick out what you want to 

  

  "So, what do you think?" She asked.

  wear and make him pay for it. Then remind him that he may be buying it, but another man will be getting the benefit. 

• Have him trim your pussy to the prefect stripper trim 

• Let him put nail polish on your toes 

• Try on different outfits and looking in the mirror with hubby watching, ask him for his opinion but make sure to also text fotos to your lover for approval. Can't find the absolute perfect outfit? Go shopping for a new one with hubby! 

• Let him sit and watch as you put on your makeup and lipstick with commentary about what your red lips will be doing to another man’s cock

Let hubby go down on you briefly before you dress, but just enough to give him a taste of what he’s giving away. Never let him make you cum and never let him masturbate. It’s all about waiting. You are waiting so he’s waiting.  

Don’t just wait before your date. Use it. Play with it. If you’re not playing with the wait, you’re missing out on half the fun!

Thoughts from a Bull

"In my vision of the perfect cuckold couple dynamic, for me, there is variety. Sometimes the cuckold is there to serve us both sexually, sometimes he can only watch. Sometimes he can only listen from another room and sometimes he is not there at all. I see this as ideal for a number of reasons. Variety keeps things interesting and in my experience, uncertainty for the cuckold adds enormously to the sexual tension (or angst) he experiences. Overall, it makes him appreciate the treats or rewards he gets from his wife when he has been obedient enough to deserve them.

Also on a practical level, if (as a cuckold), you genuinely want a Bull to be interested in your wife for a sustained period of time you must learn the value of stepping back and allowing them to spend quality time together.

Speaking from a Bulls perspective, if you truly want to hold a Bulls attention; if regular meets are truly your desire, it is essential that conditions are in place to allow a bond to develop between your wife and her Bull. Nothing makes me lose interest in a couple quicker than an inaccessible wife. Yes, I always make a point of getting to know the cuckold: his fantasies, his desires, his jealousy’s and fears,…mainly to know which buttons to push, how far I can go, and to win his trust…however, for me there also has to be some kind of mechanism that allows me to get to know and hopefully bond with the wife. Private texting or phone chats is the bare minimum for me. An occasional night alone with her though, is what is really required to take this whole experience to the next level, for everybody involved.

It’s hardly news to anyone anymore that the secret to powerful, invigorating sex starts in the mind. Ideally, the whole hotwife experience starts out sensual, long before it gets sexual. Grant your wife the space, time and opportunity to have her mind trigger REAL desire for her Bull, and then, only then, are you guaranteed REAL cuckold-hotwife fireworks."

True story from Carol - The night that changed our life.

It was Saturday night and after a couple cocktails with dinner, Joe and I decided to hit a dance club for a few drinks after dinner. This is not uncommon for us on the weekends. We both have demanding jobs and always try to make the best of the weekends. This was a new club for us. More upscale then the norm and we both figured we’d find a spot at the bar and enjoy a night of libations and people watching, for an hour at most. 

We cozied up to the bar in the bustling nightclub and Joe set forth to get us a drink. The two attractive female bartenders were slammed. Each time one would approach Joe, he’d stretch out his arm and try to get her attention while holding a $20 bill. Each time, they breezed past. After a about 5 minutes, I was wondering if drinks were in our future. As Joe continued to reach over the bar, clutching his $20, a man approached the bar. He squeezed between the two of us and immediately captured the bartenders attention. She leaned over and got took his order almost instantly. My first instinct was anger. I looked to Joe and he saw the look of disgust on his face. Then I looked at the stranger. Oh my god! How could I be angry? Standing between Joe and I was a handsome black man. He was tall, well built, and appeared to be a perfect gentleman. As Joe continued to flail his arm at the bartender, the stranger leaned down and asked me if I was waiting to get a drink. When I replied in the affirmative, he once again got the bartenders attention and ordered me the Chardonnay that I had been craving. He even had the drink put on his tab! 

I was so struck by his confidence and swagger that I momentarily forgot that Joe was still trying to get his first round! I thanked the stranger and he politely said 

“You’re welcome. I know how hard it can be for a single woman to get a drink around here”. 

That’s when I remembered Joe. I giggled and motioned to Joe 

“I’m actually here with my husband”. 

The stranger glanced at Joe and then quickly turned his attention back to me. “You know, since I got you your drink, the least you could do is give me a dance”

“My god” I thought! I was taken aback by his confidence and momentarily hesitated in my response. Before I responded he said

“Don’t worry, I don’t bite. It’s just a dance. We’re all adults here, right?”

“Holy Fuck”, I thought to myself. It really wasn’t a question, but a statement. He leaned in and bit more and said

“My named is Reggie, just one dance?”

I don’t know, blame it on the warm up cocktails at home or chalk it up to Reggie’s staggering confidence and his unwavering eye contact, but I nodded my head yes, knowing full well that Joe would have a cow. Reggie smiled and led me out to the dance floor by the hand, as Joe stood at the bar, jaw dropping I’m sure. 

 It was to loud to have a conversation, but we could sure dance. And dance I did. The music was thumping, and I sipped what was my 3rd wine for the night, I found some pretty good rhythm for a 40 year old white girl! I got into the music, and that one song became two, then three - then I lost track. Reggie was all smiles, as was I. I glanced at the bar and saw that Joe had found himself a seat and a drink. Although he didn’t look real happy, his eyes were riveted to the dance floor and I found myself enjoying this situation. By this time any feeling of guilt I may have had quickly disappeared. Maybe it was the alcohol or maybe it was Reggie’s cool confidence and swagger. Either way, I allowed myself to be sucked into the moment. Reggie’s reassuring words “We’re all adults here, right?” rang through my head. Of course we’re adults and we were acting like it. 

After a few more songs, Reggie excused himself to the men’s room and I took the opportunity to visit Joe at the bar. The reception I got was cold. Joe was now into his 4th drink and was fuming at my “slutty behavior”. I guess Joe’s response shouldn’t have been unexpected, but I did find it quite immature and out of line. Although I was a little angry, the hotness of the situation was turning me on, and yes, maybe the alcohol was getting the better of me. 

“Joe, settle down. He’s a nice guy and it’s just dancing. You don’t like to dance anyway! We’re all adults here, right?” Joe was slow to respond. 

“RIGHT?”

Joe must have detected something in my voice as he conceded to easily. 

“Yes, Carol, we’re all adults”

“Good, then don’t ruin a perfectly good evening baby, okay?”

He nodded and the look of submission on his face was unmistakeable. 

Right about then the bartender sauntered by, and I grabbed her attention. I ordered three shots of Fireball whiskey and told her to put it on Joe’s tab. It occurred to me that when we arrived at the bar, Joe was unable to properly order us cocktails. Reggie had to get them for us. And now I was doing the ordering as Joe seemed incapable of completing this simple task. First a handsome stranger had to do what Joe could not, and then his own wife had to take charge to get results. I smirked when the drinks were delivered posthaste and Joe’s expression indicated that he also caught the irony of the situation.

Joe reached for one of the shots and I quickly batted his arm down. I told him the third one was for Reggie and that since Reggie was polite enough to get my first round, we should be polite and wait for him to return and do the shot together. 

“But I thought you dancing with Reggie was thanks enough”

I replied “honey, don’t be like that. It’s just a shot…. After all, we’re all adults here, right?”

Joe leaned back in his chair, and I admit I felt a slight twinge of excitement at the subtle emasculation that was occurring here. 

About that time, I spied Reggie walking our way from the restroom area. I was finally able to see him from a distance and for the first time I noticed the sizeable bulge in his pants. I may have stared a bit to long, but my inhibitions were low. I blame it on the alcohol. Regrouping at the bar, I handed Reg one of the three shot glasses and he thanked me, as Joe stared on. I called for a toast to “New friends” and we all raised are glasses and took the shot. It wasn’t the most pleasant tasting shot, but I handled like a trooper with only a tiny wince. Reg was a bit more impressive, as he looked like he was simply drinking a shot of water. Then there was Joe. His shot glass was half full still as mine and Reg’s hit the bar simultaneously. I looked on as he took his second shot at the whiskey, finally getting it all down. I couldn’t help but playfully comment

“god baby, don’t be such a wimp”

Poor Joe. I immediately realized those words only added to his growing insecurity, but I quickly concluded that that wasn’t a bad thing. Reg chuckled as Joe chased his shot with a glass of water and leaned back again in his chair. That was when Reg leaned in and invited me back out to the dance floor. What took him so long! I turned to Joe and he said something to the effect of wasn’t I about ready to go home. And haven’t I done enough dancing for one night. Before I could reply, Reg was pulling me by the hand and I willingly followed him to the floor as I told Joe:

“just a couple more songs” , I yelled as I trotted away

Back out on the dance floor I was catching my second wind. Again, songs flew by and when I looked at my watch I realized we had been out there 45 minutes. Reg and I were both glistening in sweat, but neither of us was ready to leave the dance floor. I was feeling a little light headed, probably from all the alcohol, and stumbled briefly before Reg caught me in his arms. I rested my head on Reg’s powerful chest as we both continued to sway to the music. 

I was acutely aware of Reg’s hands now moving up and down my back. To my hips - then my shoulders. Soon my hands were doing the same, Out lining his wide frame. At one point Reg turned me around and we began grinding to the music. I spied Joe at the bar staring on, nursing a glass of ice water. I thought about what had transpired tonight. I felt like I was being swept off my feet, as my helpless husband looked on - unable to intervene or even protest the very open flirting that was going on between his normally conservative wife and a handsome strange black man. Again, maybe it was the alcohol, but seeing Joe in this predicament was exciting me. Just as our eyes met, I bent forward just bit and backed my ass hard into Reg’s crotch. Reg’s arm carefully circled my waste and held me closer to him. I felt his breath on the back of my neck as we grinded and dipped in small semi circles. 

“You’re killing me girl”

He said as his lips lingered millimeters from my neck. That’s when I felt a twitch on my ass. All I could think was “oh my god”. Reg was become aroused and from the feel of it, he was packing a monster in his pants. I realized my eyes were closed, ever so briefly, and when i reopened them I saw Joe, red face, looking very flustered and awkward looking on. The cute bartender was over his shoulder looking on. She also seemed delighted at Joe’s predicament and I swear she winked in my direction like “You go girl”. I reached back for Reg’s hand intending to lead him off the floor and back to the bar. Instead, my hand found something else. In just a couple seconds, I confirmed what my ass had felt. This man was hung! By purely non scientific means, I estimated his cock to be at 8″ at least - maybe nine. And girthy. What the fuck was happening here? My pussy moistened. I finally found Reg’s hand and led him from the dance floor......

Sissy clits...

These are some prime examples of how your insignificant other should cum while you reserve your mouth and poussy for a real man ;-)

(but only if he has been a good boi ofcourse!)

Everyday when he comes home please..

52 Humiliating Femdom/Cuckold Ideas

Here’s a list of 52 humiliating, and often times, emasculating ideas, roleplays or fantasies my wife and I have either thought up, or picked up from various online sources to keep the “cuckold” fires burning, and to keep each sexual experience kinky and intense for all parties… 
There are 3 categories:
- Femdom ideas
- ‘Cuckold fantasy’ role-playing
- Actual cuckold scenario’s

The first two categories are all ideas or fantasies you can try out without a third party involved. The last category…, well, let’s just say that’s where it gets really interesting ;-). 
Enjoy!

Femdom Ideas

♠     Send hubby out shopping to buy you feminine articles (makeup, panties, bra’s, tampons,…) Have him buy condoms, asking the woman behind the counter whether they have “extra small” condoms in stock.

♠    Make him wear female deodorant and/or perfume.

♠    Feminize his name, or come up with a cute ‘girly’ name to call him, and use it regularly.

♠    When eating out, choose his meals for him, and be the one to give the waiter the order.

♠    Have him paint your toe nails, and then have him paint his own.

♠    Insist that he sit down at all times when using the toilet.

♠    Make him carry your handbag occasionally when in public.

♠    Invite your friends over for a drink and have hubby serve all of you. Tease him while doing so: “be a good little hubby and make us all a drink won’t you? – good boy…”

♠    Make him kneel in front of you regularly, to beg for something (to let him out his chastity cage, to give you oral sex, to massage your feet, to get any kind of sexual favours,…etc).

♠    Have him buy his own lingerie set (bra, panties and leggings) and make him wear it regularly while pleasuring you, while fucking him with a strapon, or while watching you pleasure yourself. Verbally tease him while doing any of the above (“You may be my hubby, but you can hardly call yourself a real man, can you?…I mean, look at you… Don’t you think your woman needs a real man?…etc)

♠    Have him completely shave his legs, and pubic hairs at least monthly. While clean shaven, have him rub his legs and pubic area in with a female body lotion whenever it’s ‘play time’

♠    Keeping the house neat and tidy must become one of hubby’s daily tasks.

♠    Have hubby pick one of your sexy lingerie sets out for you before a night out with your girlfriends. Remark what a shame it would be if no other men were to enjoy the look of it on you that night. Ask him if he agrees, and whether or not he encourages you to flirt openly with other men while out.

♠    Give him a minimum of 10 strokes with a paddle or cane every month, and connect it to things in his behaviour the past month that could be improved upon. Start off immediately with solid strokes that are felt. Light strokes are not taken seriously, at all. Do not be afraid to end off with 3 or 4 extremely hard strokes. He needs to feel clear and unmistakable pain at your hands. Then sooth him by gently rubbing over his ass, while he repeats what parts of his behaviour he intends to better the following month.

♠    For at least one week each month, whenever he cums, have him lick up his own cum…whether it be after masturbating by himself, cumming inside you, or on top of you…forbid the use of any towels or cleaning tissues… This will train him to remain submissive, even after he’s cum, reminding him that you call the shots, even after his orgasm, which goes against his natural male instincts. This must become a routine.  

♠    Fuck his ass with a strapon while he masturbates. Order him to cum within ten minutes. Set a timer. If he fails, he doesn’t get to cum that evening. Whether he fails or succeeds, have him follow it up by giving you oral sex. 

♠    Have him make a mold of his own penis (search “clone a willy” in Google). Once made, have him give it a long, intricate blowjob. Then fuck his ass with it, before fucking his ass with one of your biggest dildo’s. Ask him whether he feels the difference between his smaller cock, and a real mans cock.

'Cuckold fantasy’ role-playing

♠    Comment on how good other men look to you, and what exactly you find sexy about them. To add some spice, comment on the things you see that are bigger/better than your hubby’s (I love his big shoulders, he looks like he probably has a huge cock, he looks like he has more money than you, etc…)

♠    Tell hubby that, lately, the men you come across at work or informally, you fantasize of as potential Bulls, which makes you horny. Tell him you can’t wait to have sex with other men.

♠    If hubby has a boss or colleagues he doesn’t get along with, or even friends he becomes competitive around, tease him how you’d love to be fucked by one of those men, and made to feel like their whore. Tell him you’d love for those men to tease him about it after fucking you.  

♠    Tell hubby you sometimes fantasize about being impregnated by another man. That a part of you fantasizes about stopping the pill, and letting a Bull breed you at your most fertile.  Tell him what a good father he’d be to another man’s child. Tease him until he agrees with you. Teasing of any kind only becomes mind-blowing if hubby thinks there’s a slight possibility you may be serious, so keep him guessing, and be convincing regardless of what you tease him with!

♠    Keep hubby in chastity for at least two full weeks. Towards the end of the second week, make a point of walking around the house naked, or in sexy lingerie before you go out to work, or for a night out with your girlfriends, but deny hubby any sexual favours. Use this opportunity to receive oral sex, or a foot or back massage. To tease him, let hubby know he’s not permitted to fuck you, but if he’s got the nerve, he’s free to call up another man to come over to fuck you while he watches. 

♠    For aspiring hot-wives, who have not yet cuckolded their hubby, buy a condom, open it and throw away the actual condom, keeping only the wrapping. Organize a night out with your girlfriends. When you come home later that evening, suggestively give hubby the ripped open condom wrapping. When he looks up at you in shock, and asks about it, tease him with it, letting him know you let another man have sex with you that night. Keep him guessing for as long as possible about whether you did or didn’t use the condom that evening. Unzip his trousers, and masturbate him slowly while teasing him - “Maybe I really did use the condom tonight…would that make you angry, or does it secretly turn you on?…Is your cock getting this hard because I’m masturbating you, or because I might have been fucked by another man tonight?…etc)

♠    Another beginner idea is to set up a night with a girlfriend, which hubby is aware of, but from that point on, role-play that you’re going off on a date with a rich business man, who, after taking you out for dinner, will be taking you back to his hotel to fuck. While with your girlfriend, send regular role-play text messages letting hubby know how things are going “with the businessman”. (“Strong, handsome looking man…certainly looks like he knows what he wants…and tonight it’s me…”, “Just arrived at his hotel…he’s booking a room right now…so nervous, but also so turned on…hope you’re still sure about all this…” “He just fucked your wife”…etc)

♠    Another role-play idea is to create a cuckold scenario where you fantasize about doing as many things as possible with a Bull that you would never (or not easily do) with hubby. Be creative, and think of all the things you’re sexually ‘uncomfortable’ with, or things hubby hasn’t easily been able to get you to do (blowjob, receiving a facial, an mff or mmf threesome, swallowing a load of cum, receiving anal sex, receiving a golden shower, giving a rim job, receiving a rim job, having an orgasm during intercourse if this generally doesn’t happen with hubby, …etc ), and fantasize out loud about wanting to experience all these things with a Bull while hubby listens or watches.

♠    Tell one of you closer girlfriends about hubby’s sexual kinks and fantasies (cuckold/femdom/strapon/chastity cage, etc), then let hubby know you told her, and share her reaction in detail.

♠    Wear an anklet as often as possible when you go out, with or without hubby, and make sure hubby is aware of it. Seek not only his approval, but make him beg you to wear it (“So you don’t mind that other men might see the anklet and think I’m available sexually? Is that what you want? How badly do you want other men to see me as available? Why don’t you get on your knees and beg me to put it on…”)

♠    Go to a club with hubby, ideally one with pre-dominantly black men, and flirt openly with strangers. Let them rub you up, buy you drinks and come on to you. Agree with hubby up front how far you can go with these men (Kiss on the lips, French kissing, a handjob, a blowjob…) all while hubby watches from a distance.

Actual cuckold scenario’s

♠    Play the game “A cuckolds delight”: Place hubby in permanent chastity for a full month, (uncaged once a day to be teased briefly before taking a shower). During that month, deny him any orgasms whatsoever, (possibly also require him to wear panties under his clothing), while performing any/all household chores. You on the other hand are free that month to enjoy as much leisure time as possible, whilst also experiencing as many orgasms as you want…BUT hubby’s task is not only to keep your home looking tidy, and pleasure you orally whenever you desire…there’s one more catch: in the course of that month, he’s to set you up with a minimum of 1 Bull. If the minimum target is met, he’s uncaged at the end of the month, and granted a week to use you however he pleases. If however he fails to set you up with a Bull (for whatever reason) the game is automatically prolonged by another month.

♠    Kneel in front of your Bull and have hubby kneeling behind you, holding your head and hair from behind while your Bull fucks your mouth until he cums. An additional idea would be to hold all your Bull’s cum in your mouth, and pass it on to hubby during an intimate french kiss afterwards.

♠    Tie hubby to a chair in the bedroom, and make him watch you and your Bull have sex in the marital bed. After some intimate foreplay with french kissing, and caressing, beg your Bull out loud to fuck you. The more desperate you appear to look, the more it will drive hubby mad…

♠    Have hubby lay against the headboard on the bed, as you lean against him or sit on your hands and knees in front of him. Then look into hubby’s eyes, and have your Bull roughly fuck you doggy style, so that hubby can feel the power of his thrusts while looking in your eyes.

♠    Tie hubby to a chair in the living room, and disappear off to the bedroom to have sex with your Bull, denying hubby the privilege of watching. After some time, take a break from fucking. Go out into the living room where hubby’s wating, hair a mess, makeup smeared, and have a glass of water. Say hi to your hubby, walk over to him and give him a french kiss. Then, grin at him mischievously, go back to the bedroom, close the door and lock it.

♠    Give your Bull a blowjob in a semi-public place while hubby stands guard (under a bridge, in an underground car park, on a reasonably deserted beach, etc) For the more advanced hot-wives, arrange to meet your Bull at the beach, and have sex on the sand at night while hubby stands lookout.

♠    Spend time socializing with your Bull for 10 to 15 minutes in the living room, before any action, and while everybody is still fully dressed. Perhaps put on a porn movie to set the tone a bit. While socializing, or watching the movie, sit next to your Bull, kissing, teasing, stroking, unbuttoning and treating him like a new boyfriend while hubby watches.

♠    Have hubby beg your Bull to fuck you. Have him beg your Bull to give you what he hasn’t been able to all these years. Demand him to say it out loud. At this stage, it’s all about humiliation. Make fun of hubby’s cock and sex skills in front of your Bull (“You see this…this is how a real man, with a real cock fucks a woman,…etc”)

♠    Go to a restaurant together with hubby and your Bull. While waiting for the main meal, take your Bull out to the car or restaurant bathroom area for a quick sex session (fucking or blowjob) then return to the table in time to enjoy your meal together. Make a point of kissing hubby on the lips when you return in order to confuse all the waiters and other guests.

♠    Take off your wedding ring, and have hubby take off his wedding ring, and lay them both on your stomach or chest, side by side…while your Bull is fucking you. Then have your Bull pull out and cum over both rings. Have hubby put both his and your ring back on full of your Bulls cum.

♠    Make a point of arranging that hubby drive you and your Bull around for half an hour while you and him make out in the back seat. For the more advanced hot-wives, at some point, make your husband drive you and your Bull to a motel while you and your Bull both make out a bit in the back seat. Then, once you’ve arrived, check –in with your Bull and make hubby sit in the car and wait until you’re done fucking your Bull in the motel, whenever that is. Alternatively, have hubby drive you to your Bulls house for sex. Then make him wait in your Bulls living room while you’re taken to the bedroom to get fucked.

♠    Have your Bull spend the evening at your place. Once going off to bed with hubby, arrange with your Bull that at 4am, he is permitted to slip into your marital bed (awakening both you and hubby), then crawl between your legs and fuck you right beside hubby. For the more advanced hot-wives, have hubby sleep in the guest room, and spend the evening in the marital bed with your Bull. When doing this, go visit hubby once an hour in the guestroom, so that he can touch, taste and smell the sex on your body. On your last visit, request that hubby wake you and your Bull up with breakfast standing ready.

♠    Make hubby wear women’s clothing, make-up and a wig and sit watching while your Bull fucks you. His task for the night is to be your Bulls personal maid, fetching drinks or snacks if necessary.

♠    Put your husband in chastity while your Bull is over, and have your Bull wear the key around his neck as he fucks you. For the more advanced hot-wives, have your Bull take the key back home with him, and hold onto it until the next time he comes over. Hubby stays in chastity until that next time, so it’s in hubby’s best interest that that next time comes sooner rather than later.

♠    Put your husband in chastity, tie him to a chair, and have him watch your Bull fuck you. Afterwards, with hubby still strapped to the chair, have your Bull cum all over hubby’s chastity cage and cock while you watch on smiling.  

♠    Make hubby go outside and clean your Bulls car, inside and out, while your Bull fucks you in the marital bed. As an alternative, have hubby take your Bulls car to the carwash and pay to have it cleaned inside and out, while your Bull fucks you in the marital bed.

♠    Have your Bull bend you over his knee and beg him to spank your bare bottom red in front of hubby. (I’m a very naughty girl, please spank me daddy) Even if it hurts, let it continue for longer than you’re ‘comfortable’ with, before finally begging your Bull to fuck you to ease the stinging. (Please, I can’t take it anymore,…please fuck me, please, I’m begging you…) This is especially effective if hubby is not permitted or encouraged to spank your bottom.

♠    Get into a position where you are able to intimately kiss hubby, while your Bull fucks you. Keep the kissing going until your Bull cums inside of you. For maximum effect, when you hear your Bull is cumming, moan out loud along with him while still trying to kiss hubby.

♠    Have hubby put his face inches away from your pussy while your Bull fucks you, then tell him to masturbate while doing so. For the more advanced hot-wives, have your Bull cum in your pussy, or on your chest if you use condoms, and have hubby lick everything clean. An alternate idea is to have the Bull pull out and cum on hubby’s face or in his open mouth.

♠    When giving your Bull a blowjob, have hubby come sit right next to you. Alternate between intimately sucking your Bulls cock, and intimately French kissing hubby with some verbal teasing (Can you taste/smell  his cock on my lips? Here, taste what a real mans cock tastes like, etc) 
For the advanced hot-wife, after five minutes of doing the above, grab hubby by the hair, and force his mouth down gently onto your Bulls cock, ordering him to get your Bull nice and hard before he fucks you. 

♠    Have hubby get your Bull hard by giving him a blowjob. Then have your Bull fuck hubby up the ass. For the more advanced hot-wives, keep hubby in chastity for one week prior to meeting up with your Bull. Remove the chastity cage when the time comes for your Bull to fuck hubby up the ass. If hubby ejaculates before your Bull is done, that would be great, as he has to endure the humiliation of having your Bull continue to fuck him after he’s cum. If he doesn’t, and your Bull cums first, then lock his cock back up in chastity without being permitted to cum. Do not release him from chastity until the next time he puts his ass up for your Bull. 

♠    Take photos and video of hubby sucking other men’s cocks, and getting fucked up the ass by lots of other men, then have him put a copy of all the footage on a USB stick that you keep securely. Tease him by threatening to show his closest friends and family all the footage if he ever steps out of line.

♠    Consider getting a “Queen of Spades” tattoo (or something symbolizing your love of black cock) put somewhere on your body. This will ensure hubby is constantly reminded of his role as your cuckold, as well as attracting attention from any black Bulls you happen to come across…

♠    Convince hubby to get some sort of ‘cuckold’ or 'owned by…’ tattoo put somewhere on his body. Even if it’s something symbolic, have him make it permanent on his body to remind him that once a cuckold, always a cuckold.

10 Things You Need To Know About Cuckolding

10. Since the 1900s the term ‘cuckolding’ has been widely used to describe a sexual fetish in which the fetishist is stimulated by their partner choosing to have sex with someone else. Most commonly used to refer to a husband with an adulterous wife.

9. The wife who enjoys cuckolding her husband is commonly referred to as a ‘hot wife’ or a cuckoldress if the man is more submissive.

8. Cuckolding can also be mixed with other non-monogamous relationships such as swinging, wife swapping, open relationships, polyamory, etc. It generally differs from the others as cuckolds thrill in their partners acts in a masochistic way, which is why it’s often categorised as a BDSM practice.

7. The masochistic aspect of Cuckolding comes from the cuckold deriving pleasure from being humiliated. The fears of infidelity and the failure to compete against another man for a woman’s affection becomes erotic.

6. Many cuckolds who crave the humiliation aspect like being forced to perform sexual acts or other acts which would normally be deemed insulting or degrading,such as cleaning out the ‘Bull’s’ cum from his wife’s pussy, while the female is encouraged to boast about the physical superiority of her male lover.

5. There are two types of cockolds. Active cuckolds like to be present in the room when the sexualcuckold3 act between the Hot Wife and her lover takes place. They mostly don’t join in, but get their pleasure from watching their partner’s enjoyment. Some cuckolds enjoy taking photographs and videos of these acts. Some submissive cuckolds also like to be tied up so that they are unable to move and feel helpless to do anything but to witness the act. Passive cuckolds (by their choice or their partners) are not allowed to enter the place of bonding. These cuckolds are very imaginative in nature and would expect their female partner to share their experience with their lover to them and they get their pleasure by imagining every aspect of their partners encounter. One of the important aspects of such cuckolds are that they enjoy the act of getting their spouse ready for the date.

4. The female partner would (or is expected to) view/use the cuckold as a resource to use financially and however else she sees fit, ie housework, etc and less as a physical partner.

cuckold43. Many cuckolds enjoy being denied a sexual relationship with their wife. They gain most, if not all of their sexual pleasure through their wife’s sexual encounters with other men.

2. Cuckolding is more common than you might think. Though there are no official statistics for practitioners and lovers of cuckolding – forums, blogs, tube sites, dating sites dedicated to the practice are more widespread than ever and only appear to be growing in popularity.

1. Trust The most important aspect of a cuckold relationship is the trust the couples have in each other. Cuckolds view the physical relationship between the female and the lover to be similar to the female playing a game of tennis or other brief entertainment, with the added benefit of pleasure for the cuckold and view it as non threatening to their relationship. A spouse going to dinner with their lover is seen as a bigger threat than them having a physical relationship as it can be viewed as a romantic/emotional connection rather than the harmless entertainment of the physical relationship.

Some positions just require a nice big fat cock

And the are often the best ;-)

Talking about Cuckolding with your Feminist Husband

All modern women should marry men who consider themselves feminists, so as to have an equal life partner who will respect her needs.

However, often, men who identify as feminists do not meet the wive’s sexual needs, even if her emotional needs are well fulfilled. When talking about cuckolding with your feminist husband, it’s important to emphasize the concept of equality. Gender equality is not about equal outcomes, it’s about equal opportunity. To “level the playing field” and to put everyone on the same footing.

Introducing cuckolding into your marriage gives you and your husband equal opportunity for sexual pleasure. 

For men to enjoy sex is biologically easy. Put their dick someplace warm for a while, push it in and out, and they have fun.

For a woman to enjoy sex, however, she needs more than simple physical stimulation. A woman’s sexuality is very cerebral. She needs to be mentally stimulated to even get close to having an orgasm.

Seven minutes of basic penetration for a man gives roughly the equal pleasure of a woman being fucked all night by a tall, confident, muscular Alpha male who will dominate her completely. Physical vs mental: men are highly physical, women are highly mental.

Feminist men are generally gentle (submissive) men, who will tend to their partners as equals or even as supperior. They are not capable of being sexually dominant, even though that is the psychological turn-on for women.

A feminist (or FLR) marriage, therefore, in the interest of giving opportunity for sufficient sexual pleasure to female partners, should be half-open, where the female is encouraged to seek male partners who will fulfill her sexual needs, while her emotional needs are met by her male spouse.

When you have reached this stage in the relationship, there is no turning back for him. By shaving him, putting him in panties, and locking his cock the wife proves that she is the leader in the marriage. Forever. His only choice is to accept this fate and do his best to keep her happy in the hopes that she will reward him with an occasional orgasm.

When they go out shopping or to dinners, she will proudly wear the key to his cock around her neck. Or perhaps her ankle. It will be awkward for him. An embarrassing but constant reminder of his role in the relationship. He’ll remain pantied and cock locked on their outings. She should dispose of all his male colognes and insist that he uses her perfume as well as female deodorant. Masculinity is no longer in his makeup. Masculinity is for real men with real cocks. They both know. 

This is permanent. This is reality

3 reasons everyone should try cuckolding their (in)significant other

Watching you with someone else can improve your bond with your (in)significant other. Read more to find out how.

Cuckolding and hotwifing are hot topics and are newly embraced lifestyles. These days, women are more comfortable with their sexual desires and are not afraid to act them out; they no longer prefer just lights out sex or the missionary position. If you are stuck in a rut in your relationship, having sex with another man — known as cuckolding or hotwifing — could be exactly what you need to reignite passion. Many females are getting into voyeurism, meaning they love people watching them have sex, which soon leads to cuckolding. Voyeurism used to be just a fantasy for most couples, but experimenting with sex and welcoming another person into the relationship (to carry out fetishes and fulfill your desires) can often strengthen the relationship. So, what are the benefits of cuckolding and hotwifing? Let's explore.

1. It's his turn on to watch.
Men love to show off just how amazing their wife is, whether it's her body or her skills between the sheets. By watching you have sex with another man, he may be surprised at how much of a turn on this is for him. There is a big difference between sex and a loving relationship, but your partner knows this, and the steamy encounter is ONLY that; your sexual satisfaction. Don't worry about cheating; cuckolding is likely to make him love and respect you even more.

2. Explore voyeurism.
Cuckolding is a great way to spice up your relationship because it can make you see just how good you have it. Exploring with voyeurism, and letting your (in)sigfnificant other watch as you have sex with another man, can make it like a competition; one he is bound to loose. Next time you are alone you want to point out how much better your lover is and how he is the best lover you've ever had.

3. You are both less likely to cheat.
Hotwifing can make you as a woman less likely to cheat in the future because you don't need to. You are having another penis with his permission. These type of relationships generally make the partnership with your (in)significant other that much more trusting and open. Next time you feel the urge to have sex with somebody else, you don't need to go behind his back and do it—you can simply invite him to watch or tell him the details afterwards.

You only live once, so why not help fulfill your partner's biggest fantasy and
have sex with another man? You can search online at a swingers website or dating site to find somebody, or even ask one of your friends if they are comfortable with doing so or ask your (in)significant other to help find you someone. People think that cuckolding can hinder a relationship, but it does the exact opposite and makes your connection better than ever. Trust the experts!

Yeah, why not :-)?

Ooh how cruel this would be :p Do you girls tell your girlfriends btw? I know I do :-)

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And their husbands love the humiliation ;-)

Why not tell them while he is there?

A meant to behave..