9 commandments for Dominant Women

These commandments should be looked at like guidelines for what is proper behavior for a dominant woman…

1. Have fun. This experience might be for both you and your partner, but paramount to everything else is that you have fun. That means if you want new panties, new shoes, a new outfit, or the house cleaned, you shall receive it. Your pleasure, your needs and your wishes come before your partners’ own needs. Provide your partner with guidelines to stay within and when your partner steps out of those guidelines apply punishment…

2. Remind your partner that you’ll stay with him forever. We love our partners and we will never leave them and they need to know that. Just because we enjoy meeting our lovers on the weekends, doesn't mean we don’t love our partners more than ever. Maybe even love him more for permitting you to have such experiences…

3. Planning is half the fun and just as submission is a gift to be treasured, domination is a talent to be mastered so get educated and experienced at dominating - the internet is a great resource…

4. No secrets. If your lover calls you and tells you how much he wants you, tell your partner. If you meet your lover for a drink, tell your partner. If you experience something special with your lover while your partner isn’t present, tell your partner. Our partners like details almost as much as we like having a special boyfriend on the side. Also feel free to call/text/chat to your lover whenever you want, especially when your partner is near…

5. Preserve yourself for your lover. Don’t let your your partner touch you sexually within a week prior to meeting your lover. Not only will you preserve your body for your lover, but you will work up sexual tension for your date. Overall you control your partners’ sexual release. You determine when, where and how he can experience an orgasm. Penetrative sex is when you penetrate him, sissies get fucked and are not allowed to fuck - period…

6. Dress sexy and play the part! Wear short dresses, skirts or thing fitting jeans. Do your hair and wear make up when you go out (dont over do it of course). You are hot and you should allow other people to see it. Dressing to pleases takes more time and work but it will pay off tremendously in how it affects your attitude towards yourself. Also make sure to make plenty of eye contact and smile. Be confident baby…

7. Express your fantasies. Tell your partner your thoughts. Give ideas of wild things like role playing while in public. Go to a bar (away from your home) and pretend your partner is really ‘just a friend’ and flirt away with the other guys there! Just as important as your fantasies is inquiering about his fantasies…

8. Request gifts from your partner. Even if he is on an allowance he should still buy you gifts such as flowers. He’ll also enjoy buying you a nightgown or new panties for your lover to tear off of you. Your partner should ask for your approval before doing anything that effects you both or the household, going anywhere or spending anything…

9. Never settle for just having your partner. You may love him forever, but you deserve to enjoy other men too. If you break up with your lover, tell your partner to find another one. You will enjoy and deserve the attention of two (or more) men and become to know it as one of the most treasured things in your life…